Just got a really good job and im happy with my career where do I go to meet people?
M20
Im not afraid to approach people or ask someone out I just dont know where I would go to meet anyone. I like Video Games, Manga, and just hanging out, I cant think of places I would go to meet someone I would like.
Ive tried hinge, and the other dating apps from what Ive seen arent good / what Im looking for. I would say a big issue on why I havent found someone is Im a little picky since I want to date with long term intentions (personality not looks wise). Like I have to enjoy interacting with them more than some random person. Ive gone on some dates and talked with a lot of people but the amount of women who play games I feel isnt the highest.
Im not a super outside person although I do like going out, I wouldnt say I look bad but besides work and hanging with friends I stay inside. Ive gone to comic shops but there are never women (Going without the sole intention of finding someone. Kinda weird to me to do that).
My main worry is I dont wanna make a woman uncomfortable. Like I wouldnt ask out someone on their shift. I also spent like 90% of my younger life isolated without friends and most of my adult life was spent indoors playing games so I never went outside hence not knowing anything about doing these hobbies irl. Im not worried about personality issues that come from this since I got really lucky and Im pretty good at talking with people, I just dont know where to meet people without being a creep.
Sorry if this is really stupid I just have no experience doing things irl besides work and I have no idea where to even start looking since I dont know anywhere my hobbies would even be irl.