u/Balla_Calla

So first off we've never been virgin before. We're trying to decide between these two cruises.

9 nights Brilliant Lady Eastern Caribbean & Bimini Holiday Dec 14-23, 2026 Miami, San Juan, Charlotte Amalie, Philipsburg, The Beach Club at Bimini & Miami

8 nights Resilient Lady

Dec 05-13, 2026 Miami, St. Croix, San Juan, Puerto Plata, The Beach Club at Bimini

We've never been to any of these ports, but not sure what to pick. The brilliant lady is a newer ship and like 400 bucks cheaper and 1 day longer. But Resilient lady is just a tad bit better timing for us lol.

Has anyone gotten this ban after returning one item? I've had my account for like 15 years. And probably have issues in all that time. A couple years ago I had a driver steal some pc parts off my porch, went through like 20 reps before I could get my money back. Even had video proof and they still just kept telling me to file a police report..

Then a couple years later I bought a mattress off amazon for my mom. She said it was way too hard so I called amazon asking how to return or exchange it if possible. The amazon rep told me to keep the bed since they couldn't take it back, but they would refund my money. Then a couple weeks later I try to buy something and my account gets locked, and they send me an email saying I'm banned for abusing returns lol. That is fucking crazy to me..Has anyone had this and gotten it fixed? Is my so's account in jeopardy for having the same household?

I used to live out in Navarre and loved all American heroes. Are there any decent sandwich shops y'all can recommend around here?

Anyone else have this?

I used to play the hell out of this game as a kid. Does anyone know of anything similar?

So long story short, I have nothing aha. I have no degree, and no certs..So I guess already severely limited. I have been in desktop support for 4 years though, and picked up quite a bit there. I make about 65k which is okay for me for now, but obviously I would like to make more. I have been learning the ccna, which is sort of a drag for me tbh, but I'm trying to push through. I come across a lot of things I've seen done or done myself at my job network related, so I'm not like 100% a newb, but maybe 90% lol.

My main issue is I dont really know what interest me as dumb as that sounds. I'm 33, and have mostly just fucked around with computers playing games and learning random shit and whatnot. I do like the idea of cloud or networking/cybersecurity roles, but I assume I need to become pretty efficient in networking to land a cloud role. I live in an area that is pretty weak for tech jobs also tbh, so is getting a ccna a waste even if I'd be better off looking for a remote role? Or should I continue on with it, and it'll pretty much prepare me for a lot of other roles? I dont even hate my current job either tbh, but I need to find a path forward. Anyways thanks for letting me ramble, I'd appreciate any advice, because I feel pretty behind in life lately..