u/BasicBitchTearGas__

Dating should work for me but it just doesnt. I have a lot of great friends, guys and girls. Im pretty social. I dont have a lot of anxiety anymore. I dress pretty well. Im not even ugly or short. But it just doesnt fucking work. 3rd time this year, i match with a cute girl on a dating app, we talk a lot, go on 1-2 dates, and then bam, one day I wake up to a long ass text about how its not gonna work. Latest one was the most shocking, i did fucking everything correctly. We went on 3 dates. Talked and called every day. 1 week after date number 3, long ass text talking about how I treated her extremely well and how she was so comfortable with me but she ‘didnt feel anything’. Just like that, another whole month down the drain. Back to the life sucking tar pit that is dating apps. Gotta wait another month for a girl to actually talk with me instead of 1-2 word answers. 21 years old and still a virgin, never had a girlfriend.
Sometimes it really hurts seeing all of my friends having girlfriends and relationships. It all came to them so fucking easily. If this continues the only logical conclusion is that im actually missing a part of my soul thats needed for being loved romantically. Im sorry if I dont belong here or something, but I dont wanna hear the cope about ‘youre gonna find the right one eventually’ anymore. Thank you

I feel like im like, missing a character trait thats needed to begin dating or something. Like something is fundamentally not right with me. The same cycle of meeting a girl, going on a couple of dates, me thinking its gonna get serious and then they ghost me/tell me its not gonna work just keeps happening. Happened again today (3rd time this year), thats why im making this post cus I just dont understand. This girl told me I treated her the best out of anyone shes been on dates with and tells me its not gonna work because she ‘doesnt feel the spark’. Im not blaming her or anything, i just dont fucking get it. Im pretty tall, i have good style, people tell me im handsome, im not a weirdo, its not any of those. I know the obvious answer is that shit just happens sometimes, and id be fine with that, but this just keeps happening to me. Im the only common denominator in every single one of these scenarios. I feel like i dont have a soul or some shit

Elsoeves egyetemista vagyok, es nemreg egy baratom mutatott egy szuper azsiai helyet Pesten. Egyetem miatt ugye Gyorben lakok, azt szeretnem megtudni hogy itt nincs-e az a sztereotipikus azsiai hely ahol olcson nagyon sok kajat adnak. Nem kell eszmeletlenul finomnak lennie meg semmi ilyesmi. Koszi szepen!