u/Be-there11

I did quite porn for more than 2 months now but i did masturbate coz my gf msgs makes me horny ! Is that bad ?

What criteria do you use to distinguish between right and wrong in your life, in your daily interactions, and in your relationship with your partner? I know there are things that are relative and don't admit of right and wrong. I'm talking here about things that are absolute for you.

Is social media affecting rl communications due to diversity of subjects people and platforms, individuals tend to improvise more behind the screens than actual life.

i see a lot of people venting about their POVS and preferences but never bonding.. is it something with the energy? or is just the world changing!

Can men and women be just friends ?

and for those who'd say yes ! do you accept your partner to have friends from the opposite gender ?

Hi everyone..

I always thought finding a partner (wife) is ordinary and wouldn't be this hard, i never thought i'll be facing analysis paralysis..

I don't know where to start i don't have female friends and i don't believe in situationships and i'm definitely not that type of men who just talk to girls outside on the streets.

I thought the easiest and safest way is ask my family and friends if they know anyone interested in this matter so we can talk, they guided me and i reached out, i talked with some of them but nothing really come to the surface. There was always conflicting of interests..

And there's this girl who really confused me, it happened that she lives near by me, they told me about her, and she already knows my intentions, she was down to the idea be coz she knows me, but i did not at 1st, so we started talking i was trying to get to know her, she was easy to talk to and it turned out that she's pretty.. she gaves me multiple hints that she likes me and i was taking things slowly, she shared a lot of things with me she mentioned that she was engaged but never liked the guy she told me that men kept coming to her house to ask her hand and she always say no coz she's so selective, she mentioned a lot of guys who tried to approach her.

Couple of days later and out of nothing she said she's not ready to continue! and she's afraid to make the next step!! i just respected her thought and stepped back ..we stopped talking and if felt disappointed coz i felt something is up.

After about 8 months she reached out in spontaneous way and we back to talk but this time was direct and fast she raised the bar of her sweet talk she said that i never left her head, she's suddenly supporte the idea of marriage and all and i just have this huge conflict on my mind ! like.. why she left and come back..

Should i just accept things the way they are and move on or end things ! Knowing that i asked her why she did that, and her answer was that have nothing to do with me it was just a dumb decision she took and regretted..

I can't tell ! any tips will be appreciated.