I am struggling and wanna peek
I am thinking a lot about peeking in Sky bri, I don’t know what to do
I am thinking a lot about peeking in Sky bri, I don’t know what to do
Last night I got drunk and randomly hooked up with a girl and I was ecstatic but after doing the act I feel nothing but regret and shame. We did it in the pouring rain under a tree, I got drenched for 1 minute of joy which I didn’t even enjoy that much. I feel so shitty especially because I abandoned my friends for this. And also I only now realize how I don’t like this girl in any way(not to be mean but I do nt think she’s attractive and she just Randomly started saying racial slurs afterwords when I was trying to get her a taxi. No relapse has ever had this effect on me I honestly don’t know what to do
Hey everyone, I’m 22. I’m in pretty good shape and usually get around 6–7 hours of sleep a night. I train with kettlebells almost every day, and I work in a factory where I average about 13,000 steps a day.
I weigh around 165 lbs and I’m about 6 feet tall on a good day. I’d estimate I’m around 14–16% body fat. I don’t have a six-pack, which might just be genetics, but overall I’m lean and pretty athletic. I can do around 20 pull-ups with good form, about 80 push-ups without stopping, and I’m comfortable training with a 62 lb kettlebell.
I mention all of that because I know low libido can sometimes be related to hormones, poor health, lack of exercise, etc., but at least from the outside, I seem relatively healthy and active.
The problem is that I think I might have ED or some kind of porn-related sexual dysfunction. I feel almost no sexual desire toward women in real life anymore. I still feel it with porn, though.
I’m getting matches on Tinder and I’ve met women who have clearly left the door open for something to happen, but when the opportunity is actually there, I’d rather go home, be alone, and watch porn. I’ve gradually started isolating myself more and more.
Last week I managed to go four days without porn. Even after the first day, I felt a level of mental clarity that I honestly couldn’t remember having before. By day four, I was actually starting to feel some real desire again, but then I relapsed.
Now I’m back to watching porn for around three hours a day and masturbating 3–5 times a day. I feel like an addict, and I’m genuinely embarrassed by how much control this has over me.
I first watched porn when I was around 11, and I basically haven’t stopped since. That means this has been part of my life for roughly half of my entire life.
Women in real life almost feel uninteresting to me sexually, while with porn I have no problem feeling desire. That’s what scares me the most.
Has anyone here been in a similar situation and actually recovered? What helped you get out of it? After using porn this heavily for this long, can my sexuality and attraction to real women return to normal, or have I permanently messed up my brain?
Any advice or experiences would be appreciated.
please help mee
Need help so bad please dm
I don’t know what my Reddit algorithm is doing but am I the only one getting suggested subreddits about fashion and lifestyle?
Random girls show up even after I have clicked “not interested” a million times on every single one of the subreddits.
I have the NSFW filter on so no stuff like that is showing but it’s still triggering.
It’s like Reddit knows that I am doing NoFap and trying to ruin it for me😅
My biggest mistake was peeking into pornography.
How do you guys deal with noticing and checking out girls in public while on a streak? How do you keep it healthy without letting it trigger cravings or relapse?
Disclaimer, i am at 10 days so I am not advocating or anything but this trick has rescued me from loneliness relapse.
So I am considering you are past 5 days and struggling further. Also this trick requires maybe a busy schedule or you living with someone like a family or partner.
So after 5 days what I did was I told myself I would relapse (l know this is counter intuitive) but only in the grandest of grand condition. For example
When nobody is at home
Watch it only on T.V
Use lube compulsory
Must be at least 3 to 4 hrs free for a long session
In living room only.
So essentially the thing is the above conditions are plausible but very hard and rare to come forward, like I am very rarely home, and I am scared the if I watch on tv someone might peel and notice through windows, the lube has a smell so my parents might notice the smell of they show up,etc. So the conditions are grandest or grand but are very hard to come by.
This trick saves you from the 99 out of 100 cases but at the end of the day it boils down to that 1 case where you need to have willpower my brother.
Just got home and the urges like to hit pretty hard when I'm alone. It's going to be a long afternoon
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Hello everyone
I'm 46 and I've been addicted to hardcore porn for 25 years. Quit it 3 weeks ago. In the evening or at nights, I have those weird, overwhelming feelings of sexual rage, disgust and emptiness. Anyone has experienced it?
I am going to quit porn for good. I don't what happens. I am going to create my own destiny
Just ask for me seriously