u/Beanie_B00

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How to make alternative friends in Philly?

Heyo! I am 24 and currently struggling to find people with similar interests. Unfortunately I was not able to make many friends in high school and college since I was quite a shy person, and as I approach my mid 20s I refuse to let more years wither away. As an autistic person, it's been difficult to make many meaningful friendships. Unfortunately, I have not really met many people with similar interests as mine either..

There are so many fun things I would love to do and events I want to go to, but I have nobody to go with.

I'm a baby bat and only recently began to experiment with gothic fashion (I've always loved the music, clothes and history), and would love to learn from other people

I adore going to cafes, libraries, having tea parties and picnics, thrift shopping and going to cool antique shops, visiting beautiful gardens, exploring cool little towns, and festivals! I also really enjoy walking down nature trails, or really just going on walks in general.

I enjoy cosplay and fashion so much, and there's so many events I want to go to but I have nobody I can ask 🥲(Comic con/Anime conventions, Ren Faires, Drag Shows, Ballrooms, etc)

I'm also queer.

It would mean everything to me to finally get to know people with similar interests, so please let me know of any events or meetups I can attend! If you're in a similar situation and looking for friends too please feel free to dm me! I would love to make a group chat too <3

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u/Beanie_B00 — 12 days ago