u/BedPsychological6414

so the package i have with my laser company is full legs and buttocks. i’ve only had a couple appointments and we have always started with my legs then the technician leaves the room for me to change and wrap the towel around me to then do my buttocks. do i leave my underwear on and wrap the towel around me then pull down my underwear when we’re ready to do that area??? or should i remove my underwear completely then wrap the towel around me and lay there and wait?? i get so awkward cause it’s just like im laying there naked and feel weird

so for context: i’m a trans woman and i struggle with bottom dysphoria and eventually plan on getting srs.

for this reason, i’m extremely selective when it comes to being intimate with people. i want to be in a relationship with someone who i know would be respectful and treat the situation delicately.

i’ve been seeing a guy for a little bit of time now and it’s going great and is eventually getting to that point and im just so so scared and hate that part of me. like the thought of being naked and being perceived as sexual with that anatomy just makes me cringe sooo hard. we’ve had a lot of open and honest discussions about it and hes just been so sweet and patient with me.

idk if im asking a question on how to help mitigate this feeling during sex or if i just want personal anecdotes of people going through the same thing but yeah any advice is appreciated