u/Beep_BoopTheJetPlane

Don't troll, I'm being dead serious here. I HATE spiders my fear is off the charts. Like literally jumping and gagging whenever I get close with a cup or my vacuum to get rid of it. I know exactly how ridiculous I sound.

I woke up with a huntsman on the wall directly above my bed, TERRIFYING. Unfortunately my friends I usually live with are away so I am left on my lonesome to deal with it.

I have never used pest control before and I understand they would typically come out for infestations but do you think they would come out for this as well?

UPDATE: My boyfriend finished work and visited to help me get rid of it! Spider of doom has now been eliminated, huzzah!!

To start please DO NOT have a good at me for our ages. We WILL NOT rush into marriage and are planning to have a longer engagement period until then and are both excited about it. Also we have been together 2 and a half years.

The thing is my boyfriend is so sweet but I know there are some things he just wouldn't think of and I have a feeling he would plan any sort of speech unless I clearly express that it is something I want. Which is completely okay but I just don't know how to bring it up or ask for it without sounding weird??

I don't mean any crazy speech just that he has something sweet to say maybe about our relationship so far and why he loves me and wants to propose and something sweet about our future. A short speech along those lines.

I have seen proposals both with and without a speech and always wanted one with, it is just so romantic to me. We usually aren't super romantic people so a special moment like that during such an important act would mean the world to me 🥺.

I hope I don't sound unreasonable.

Could anyone give me some tips on how to tell him I want that?

TLDR: My boyfriend is sweet but hasn't gotten much advice from those around him and hasn't really consumed much media that would prompt him to think of smaller details. I need to tell him I would like a sweet romantic speech but don't know what to say. Please help!