Violet was so good tonight, her new songs sound really good which make me excited already for the new album, she is super shy and plays one song after another with minimal talking inbetween songs, her band are incredible aswell (especially the drummer) i will deffo be seeing her again thats for sure
Im going to violets liverpool gig tomorrow which i am looking forward to as I think her new album is really good, im going solo and would be happy to meet with other fans before the gig
Im a 27m who has never been in a relationship or been on a date.
I have always been insecure about the way I look, I dont class myself as ''handsome''. Im on dating apps but dont get likes, so this effects my confidence more. Im thinking of learning the bass/guitar as I way to meet people and as i want to learn an instrument.
I have added some pictures for context, i dont really take pictures as i also dont like my smile, so they ate not the best
Im going to Liverpool and this will be my 1st intimate gig, just wondering if artists come out and see fans after the show as its a smaller venue?
Im 27m and I've never been in a relationship, I am an introvert who lacks confidence, self esteem etc, im on multiple dating apps, i dont get many likes so that knocks my confidence more as its physicall features that people go off 1st on dating apps. I would say I am reasonably attractive but nothing special. I am thinking of learning to play guitar/bass as a hobby to meet people etc.
Im thinking of going to therapy to try and help, would this help in anyway as its only me that can make a difference?
Im seeing violet in Liverpool im so excited as her album is so good, it favourite song is often others. Im guessing her setlist is slightly shorter then the normal length with her only have 1 album out
I have been seeing footage of the meet and greet of the girls in japan, it looks so good and well organised! i would love them to do a meet and greet when they eventually come to the uk for a tour
i know the chances are high of Morrissey cancelling any gig, but im hoping I get to see him as im a big Smiths and Morrissey fan. Anyone got any recommendations for things to do in Cardiff in case he does cancel?
I am quite close with 1 coworker and when she started she was in a relationship so i did not push anything out of respect for her, however she was flirting, teasing, saying things like we should meet up and do things outside work, and gave off vibes that she might have a soft spot for me. she has since split from her partner saying she is happy single but has been going on dates (People can date casually i guess without wanting a partner?) i was wondering if its best to try and see if there is something there or leave it as just friends as we work together and it could get quite awkward and since she has said she is happy single?
I've become quite close to a coworker over the past few months and I'm struggling to work out whether she's just a genuinely friendly person or whether there could be something more.
In person we get on really well. She teases me a lot, jokes and flirts with me, remembers little things about me, and often seems pleased to see me. She has greeted me enthusiastically when I've arrived at work and when we pass each other. She checks in on me regularly and notices when i am down/offers support and she has said "message if you need anything" and that she's always there for me and she cares about me.
She has also suggested doing things outside of work on more than one occasion (sometimes including another coworker), uses future tense when talking about things we could do, and when I suggested going to a music concert because she'd never been to one, she said yes, although she didn't really elaborate beyond that.
She's nominated me for employee of the month with her reason being im just amazing and wonderful, she generally seems very comfortable around me,making good eye contact, laughing even when i dont say anything funny, she does this with a playfull and excited tone in her voice.
When she started she was in a relationship, so I thought nothing more of it even though i liked her purely out of respect for her, she has since come out of the relationship and has asked me how old i am (got excited when she noticed we are a similar age) and if i have a GF/in a relationship. she could have asked me these questions when she was in a relationship,so the timing on the questions has made me question if she has always had a soft spot for me and her behavior has stayed the same so its not like she is suddenly being this way with me now she is single, which also proves the point the connection was genuine from the start.
The confusing part is texting. Outside work, I'm almost always the one who messages first. She has told me I can message her about anything and has said "message if you need anything", but she often gives short replies or doesn't reply at all. The text conversations often feel one-sided, whereas in person she seems much warmer, more enthusiastic and more engaged.
I'm trying to be realistic and not read too much into things. Does this sound like someone who is simply a friendly, caring coworker, or could there be signs of genuine romantic interest? And if you were in my position, would you keep trying to message outside work or just focus on the in-person connection and see where things naturally go?
If you got to the end thanks as I appreciate it was a long messege.