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Anyone be up for coming to a male walking group?

I recently visited Copenhagen and had the pleasure to join a group of young men age 18-40 on a weekly walk that they created to help build bonds in young men. It was an open place for discussion of life and current events in their lives. I would like to start something here in Charlotte, would anyone be interested? I was thinking freedom park on Sunday’s, sometime in the morning? If I have any interest in all I would love to pursue it. Thanks in advance!

What I would hope to gain from this, is to create a safe space for young men to talk about the things that are bothering them with no judgement. I want to create a place that makes people feel like they belong to something, even if they are introverted or socially awkward.

UPDATE: I’ve had enough traction, I am currently planning for the 11th at Freedom Park. I think 9am would be best but we can change it after we get the first one out of the way. There is rain on the radar but hoping it will change, if not I will reschedule. Please DM me for anymore info, thanks. We will meet outside the strength and conditioning gym.

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u/Beneficial-Fly2382 — 11 days ago

Married 12 years separated a month

How do you get over this??? We have been separated a month and I feel like I’m dead inside. I can’t go 5-10 minutes without extreme regret and sadness. She moved to her friends and it feels like she is living her best life. How do I move forward? I’m so hurt.

Edit: I wrote that in a particularly bad moment,
I am 31M my wife is 30F, we have been together for 12 years. Ever since she turned 30 it has gone far down hill. Obviously we’ve had some issues in the past to include intimacy and emotional connection. But the issues that push to the separation are the out of nowhere complete obsession with a boy band. That strongly affected our emotional connection and intimacy. I am the one who asked for separation because I was tired of feeling like second place. Even tho I asked for the separation I am still in great pain and grief.

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u/Beneficial-Fly2382 — 24 days ago