u/BeneficialShelter243

I found out that one of my family members has been signing into my ChatGPT and it’s been going on for over a year. Also, this is going to be a long ones so I’m so sorry guys.

About a year ago, I had a very complicated situation that I did not know what to do with. I had agreed to throw a Christmas party at my brand new home, but then I started thinking about how many parents and children would be in my place and I knew that there would be some kind of argument because their parenting styles are very different.

So I downloaded ChatGPT for the very first time and I asked what I should do that’s when ChatGPT told me to separate the party into smaller groups so where I’m not breaking my promise, but I’m still protecting my sanity.

It was so weird but this family member knew about it before I even told anybody the only person who had known at that point was my sister so I figured that this family member had overheard me and my sister talking about it.

Over the next year whenever I would have a situation which I didn’t know what to do with
I would message ChatGPT and ask what
I should do. I’m aware that other people filter through those messages so I’ve always kept it at a need to know basis only telling ChatGPT what it needed to know to be able to help me.

This particular family member started getting weirder and weirder. They would just always know everything and whenever there would be something that I was for sure I didn’t tell them I’d be like well. How did you hear about that and they would always tell me that my Dad told them. I always believe this because I tell my Dad everything.

Well, then there was a few times when my Dad didn’t even know about something they had known about, but I somehow convinced myself that they heard it from someone else.

I would also tell ChatGPT about things that were more private just to get help with processing it and it wasn’t anything bad it was about my assault. It is very public knowledge which is why I was willing to share it, but nobody knew how deep it actually was or how much it affected me.

There were details that I shared with ChatGPT that no one knew except the people involved, my caseworker and therapist. Even at this point when she would talk to the police or any other kind of professional worker about it she would tell them details that I never told her but I still convinced myself that maybe she overheard someone discussing it.

Well, yesterday she started sending me screenshots from ChatGPT I didn’t even know that she knew what that was so I was caught off guard and then I start thinking about how she would have been able to do this without my information and I realize that I signed my Google account into her Phone over a year ago because I trusted her enough and it was before I even started using ChatGPT.

What makes me feel weird is the fact that she has known everything, including the way that I feel about the way that she treats me occasionally and she hasn’t thought about getting better once. There has been so many times where I have been come to ChatGPT to figure out how to forgive her or to understand where she was coming from.

I would never say her name or how she was related to me even now I’m not gonna tell you guys my relation with her but she knew dang well that 75% of my messages were about her and she continued to treat me like trash. The problem is she’s very good at making you feel sorry for her and love bombing you then out of the blue treating you badly, but because of everything she’s been through you don’t really feel like you can just cut her off. She’s also helped me in so many ways that I don’t feel like I can just cut her off, but this behavior is mad weird.

I went ahead and logged out all devices and changed the password to all of my stuff. I also deleted my entire ChatGPT conversation even though I haven’t used it in a while because I’ve been coming to Reddit instead. I honestly don’t know what to do further because she’s pretending like she hasn’t been in my account this entire time and she was just using ChatGPT to help her with figuring out how to fill out some paper.

I 20f have always wanted to be a mother since I was younger. So I’ve always had two names picked out One for a girl and one for a boy.

When I was 16 I found out that my cousin was pregnant with a girl. I was super excited because we were almost inseparable. The day the baby was born I found out that she had used my baby‘s name. We always talked about what we would name our kids when we have them. She told me she wanted to name her baby another name, but then when she gave birth, she named her baby my girl name that I had had picked out since kindergarten. I was upset but she told me that her baby is practically my baby.

So it’s not a big deal I went ahead and just picked out a different name. We actually don’t talk anymore but it’s not because of this.

Well then I find out that my other cousins pregnant when she gives birth to her baby she names her baby my baby boy name. She was also very aware that I literally loved that name and have had it since kindergarten. I make one comment that I had planned on naming my baby that and she said well good then your child can be named after mine it’s not my fault that you can’t have kids.

I told her that it wasn’t a big deal I picked out another boy name. Well then we find out that my mom is pregnant. When she finds out that her baby is going to be a girl she names it the girl named that I had picked if you think this is insane it doesn’t get any better.

the first cousin I was talking about she has another baby around the same time and names that baby my boy name. That’s when I find out that my other cousin is pregnant she straight up asked me if I had any ideas for what her son‘s name could be and I gave her a suggestion and then she’s like well what are you naming your son?

I told her that I wanted to keep it a secret because my name’s keep getting taken in and she tells me that I’m being dramatic. It’s not that big of a deal. That if I tell her, she promises she won’t tell anyone else. So I lied to her. I tell her that if I have a boy, I will be naming him after my current boyfriend at that time. She’s like oh I don’t really think that’s a good idea because if you guys break up, there’s gonna be resentment towards your son.

I told her that I’m not that petty and any mother who hold resentment towards their child because of a man shouldn’t be a mother so I think that name is perfect and I just love his name. Genuinely to this day, even though we have broke up. I still love that name. Not the point though. When she gives birth to her baby, she literally names her son my ex’s name, like I said we were together at that time though.

Here recently my cousin told me thank you for the name suggestion, and I told her that even though I love that name I never planned on using it. She’s now very upset at me saying I tricked her into naming her child after my lover.

If you haven’t seen my other post, my management thinks that my brother is living with me and threatened to evict me if I can’t prove that he’s not but yet every piece of evidence that I give, she says it’s not good enough because it doesn’t prove that he lives with my grandma. We’ve even given her a copy of my brother‘s lease and supposedly that’s still not enough.

Well, I guess right now she’s trying to get the evictions approved. I’m not really sure the process of that but as soon as she does, I’m taking it to court and I’m suing her and this complex that I live in for wrongful eviction, harassment, and literally anything else that I can get to stick.

Because she has zero evidence that my brother has been living with me and the evidence that I gave her to prove that my brother is on another lease, she refuses to accept it. The problem is they’re not only trying to evict me they’re trying to evict my parents too who in the same complex as me just different units with zero evidence at all, not even a picture.

Well, I found out that the person who originally turned me in was my neighbor who lives behind me what I don’t understand though is he is currently being evicted for justified behavior. The reason he turned me in was because he believes I’m the reason he got evicted, but even though I have a lot of evidence caught on my cameras. I have never turned him in. It was the neighbor beside him that got him evicted because unlike me who’s willing to put up with the behavior, she wasn’t.

He was the first person to turn me in. Then his girlfriend took a picture of me and my brother waiting for my ride to my appointment, which I literally had to have my brother there for.

What, I don’t understand is how his complaint could even be considered since he’s evicted. When I brought this up, I was pretty much told that everyone has rights even those who have been evicted and everyone has to follow the rules.

I am very much a rule follower so is my family and we have been written up over 30 times collectively every single one of them has been voided so I don’t know why they continue to fight this.

I’m not worried about losing this case because everyone’s willing to stand behind me but this whole case is ridiculous and shouldn’t even be legal.
Is this something that I should bring up in court?

I 20f moved into my apartment about a year ago before I moved in It used to be a retirement home. But they have now turned it into a retirement/disability housing since. The neighbor said they don’t like me because I don’t belong here. I’m too young. I don’t exactly know why they don’t like me because I’ve literally done nothing wrong. I never come out of my house. I don’t have visitors literally there’s nothing not to like about me.

I follow every single rule to a T. Since I’ve moved in we’ve had three different managers each time we get a different Manager they all collectively come together and tell on me each time the managers have to learn that they can’t trust them because I’m the type of person that has evidence all the time

I’m not joking. I’m literally scared to leave my house because I don’t wanna be written up. I have to keep a camera on to document evidence just to prove that I’m not doing what they’re saying. I’m doing we got a new Manager and they’re already trying to get me written up by saying that my brother lives with me when he don’t

He has never even stayed the night at my house, not once I was informed that if I didn’t get a paper proving that he lived somewhere else I would be evicted He has never once stayed at my house and has never been in my house more than an hour since I’ve lived here. I can’t have no family stay with me because of one of my disorders which I can’t be around sleeping people or it throws me into a panic attack it has to do with trauma

But at this point, I’m honestly done because I was in the laundry room today giving her my papers for my dog, showing them that she’s had all of her shots and one of the neighbors come in there, shouting about boxes when this particular neighbor has literally watched me tear the boxes up and put them in the trashcan I can’t move because there’s literally nowhere to move to that I can afford so I’m stuck living with this every single day and I’m now getting threatened an eviction

Update: I have now provided them with the paperwork which is literally his lease and they’re telling me they’re gonna have to see if that works because she doesn’t think it will. It literally proves that he lives elsewhere and they’re still telling me that that’s not good enough. I don’t know what else to do because if I make a complaint The Manager gets told who made the complaint and I already got a target on me. I literally cannot deal with another one. is there any other way to prove that he live somewhere else if a lease will not work.