u/Berry-Aromatic

Am I cooked?

So many months ago me and my crush were talking everyday and it was obvious that we liked each other. The only reason we actually didnt end up together was how mentally unprepared I was for something like that. Fast forward to today and we dont talk often, just sometimes I get signs of her liking me again. As much of a loser as this makes me sound, I always used small signs on social media as hints. A few days ago we started snapping every 2 mins and we were both posting notes abt love and stuff, which she sisnt post notes often(ik how cringe this is sounding). That changed recently when we went back to snapping like normal and when I posted another love note, minutes later hers was about letting go of people, and like I said, she doesn'tdo notes often. Whenever I sat next to her in class we talked and had great chemistry, but I could never approach her during class. I want to talk to her in person, but I've always been too scared and this has made it so I feel like I shouldn't even risk it. Even still, she's rhe only person ice ever really had butterflies for and I regret every small decision that led me to not be with her. How do I go about this situation, should I stop taking small things on social media as signs or should i try to let go of her?

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u/Berry-Aromatic — 6 days ago
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How to start talking to my failed talking stage

I 16M started talking to a girl 15 F who sat next to me and eventually we started talking. As we talked for a couple months, I had pessimistic thoughts about my self worth and couldnt work up the courage to ask to hangout nor could I go up to her in person in front of her friends, even though we talked in person when we sat by each other. Eventually my negative thoughts led to a fallout between us and we now only snap eachother. I really miss talking to her and I still have a huge crush on her even though we haven't talked in months. How can I start talking to her again and try to pursue an actual relationship this time?

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u/Berry-Aromatic — 13 days ago