u/BestExpression332

I work at a Sainsburys somewhere in London and genuinely think I’ve got a serious masturbation addiction. Every few hours I get this unbearable urge and it completely takes over my brain. I’m embarrassed even typing this out.

To be clear, calm and collect, I’ve ended up doing it in the staff toilets into my hands and then going straight back to work handling customers food and cash without washing because I’ve got a phobia around water and sinks. Before anyone says it, yes I know it’s disgusting and I hate myself for it afterwards.

My dating life is nonexistent too. I’m in my 30s and the only sexual experience I’ve ever had the girl didnt even know it happened so it hardly counts. I’m lonely as fuck and honestly think all of this is connected somehow.

I know this sounds insane but I genuinely want to sort my life out. Has anyone actually dealt with compulsive behaviour like this before and managed to get past it? Because right now I feel completely cooked. I want a girlfriend so bad but i cant break this dry spell.

Was taking a number 2 in the jacks when manager came in the ladies room and noticed someone in cubicle. He asked who it was and I told him I'd be out in 5 minutes.

He got snarky and said I'd been missing from shop floor for ten minutes. I told him that I genuinely felt rough and would be out shortly. He then proceeded to pull himself up to peak over the cubicle to see me sitting on my phone. Didnt even get a chance to wipe before he went ballistic and made me come out immediately then proceeded to tell everyone on the shop floor that I was sitting playing on my phone on the toilet.

I'm really annoyed as I was feeling unwell and needed to stay in the cubicle not to mention the embarrassment of him telling everyone as if I was skiving in the toilet. Surely he's not allowed to do this.?

Im a loader and just wanted to say them fellas that work in the blue box in the yard (tardis) have too much ego. Especially that one older bloke (if you know you know), always walking around like he owns athe place and giving so much attitude.

End of the day we’re all on the same hour based pay, no need to act like your so much better than us.

Went to him to show an issue in my van, he said im wasting his time and nothing wrong with them. It was a simple question, and the interaction took about 30 seconds. They moan if you show them an issue and moan when you dont.

I honestly dont understand why they have so much ego.