u/Better_Lobster_8445

Can I go into the Aboriginal Medical Centre?

Hi everyone, I (19F) am a Wiradjuri and Kamillaroi woman who has moved from home to go study at university. I am from a regional area and I grew up going to and using the Aboriginal medical centre back home. As sad as it is to say my family is from a lower income background so we couldn't afford to go and pay medical bills at other centres so we always just went there growing up.

However, my question is now that I have moved to the city am I allowed to go in? Or do I need to do some procedures like be immersed in the community first? Is there a time restriction? Like do I need to live in the area for at least a year? Or is it only for local Indigenous people to use? I'm just unsure if I am welcome to use it or not. As a university student I am currently struggling financially and I am unable to afford the hospitals around here, so going to the medical centre is my best bet.

I apologise if any of this sounds insensitive and/or culturally offends anyone. And no I don't want to use it for free services, I just need some help and am unsure where to go. If this isn't available for me does anyone know a better alternative for free health clinics?

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u/Better_Lobster_8445 — 10 days ago

Never had a bf

Just like the title says I am desperate for a bf. For some context I am a (19F) plus size women who has never dated before and is trying to find a bf who genuinely wants to be with me. But it is so hard trying to find that especially in this generation where all everyone does is hookup.

And each time a guy talks to me they just want sex and I'm sick of getting hurt over and over again. I get so depressed and I think I might genuinely be alone forever, could someone give me any advice on what to do? I just want to be loved and experience love :(

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u/Better_Lobster_8445 — 12 days ago

Guy lost interest after sending a full body photo

Hi guys for context I (19F) am a plus size woman who has only begun trying to get into the dating pool to find a partner. At first it was going off a hard start with only fetishizers interested in me. But after a bit I finally connected with a great guy and so far it's been going great. He has been committed in getting to know me, not rushing too fast and giving compliments that don't sound forced and with sexual intent e.g. he would say I am radiant.

Anyways a week later and I decided to show him a full body picture of myself (with clothes on ok freaks). He saw it and said he thought I was lovely but I didn't feel like he meant it and began to second doubt myself. After I said thank you for the compliment he didn't respond to me for 4 hours. Previously we would text most of the time and only have a 1-2 hr gap in replying back so I found this very weird.

So far hasn't said anything and now I feel I disgusted him and ruined my chance with a guy. Which is ashamed because it was going very well and I truly felt like we had a genuine connection. I just feel so hurt and don't know what to do, I'm so scared that I ruined things. I could potentially be overthinking things but idk. I just really want this to work out but what do I do here?

Edit! Thank you girlies so much I dodged a red flag he was an actual dick.

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u/Better_Lobster_8445 — 12 days ago