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Anyone ever been? We are thinking for our next trip this may be the place. Are there any luxury resorts? Not really in the mood to “rough it” on our next trip.

I promise I’m not trying to be mean. In my family we have multiple generations of people aging (some in 90’s, 80’s, 70’s not doing well,etc) and I’m seeing how it’s stealing decades from my loved ones. It’s really sad and also interesting because some of them live far away, like hours away but are still expected to be everything for the elderly person who was just stubborn and would never leave their town.
Why don’t the families just let the elderly
A)have the systems in place work so that they can live independently as long as they can then transition into assisted living
B) reap the consequences of their decisions and struggle until they realize that they need assistance.
It seems really selfish to me to steal years or decades of someone’s life when they could be spending time doing anything else (traveling, building a more full career, going to school, etc.) and I’m just trying to understand if people are just kind of enabling it?

I’m looking for experiences. I’m really bummed out by some of the side effects of duloxetine and it’s really starting to get to me. Gabapentin and a couple other common treatments have already failed so I’m thinking I might ask about this at my neuro appointment next week.
My main fears are fatigue increasing, nerve pain increasing, brain fog, and sexual side effects to be specific.

I’m self taught and recently have decided I want to dive into learning more technical color theory as if I were in school. What’s your best reference book?