u/Big-Yam9795

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Seeking mature guidance and perspective on a personal health/relationship matter

​Hi guys,

​I would appreciate it if I could get an honest answer and mature guidance on a sensitive matter.

​I am a male in my early 30s, and I have been in a committed relationship for four years. To get straight to the point, my question relates to the distinct intimate scent or chemical aroma that occurs immediately after intercourse. Over the course of a long-term relationship, you get to know your partner's normal baseline scent very well.

​Recently, I was away from home for two weeks due to an injury that required a hospital stay. Since returning, every time we have had intercourse, I have noticed a distinct and persistent change in that post-coital scent compared to what I have known for the last four years.

​Given the timing of my absence, I am struggling with thoughts that she may have been intimate with someone else while I was away. I want to handle this maturely and objectively without jumping to conclusions.

​Could those with relevant experience or medical insight kindly educate me on this situation? Is a sudden change in this specific scent always an indicator of outside intimacy, or are there common medical, hormonal, or physiological reasons why a partner's post-sex chemistry would change so suddenly after a few weeks apart?

​Thank you in advance for your time and mature feedback.

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