u/BigFinish9075

So, I tried posting in an another community and got zero responses.

I went on two dates with someone and it was really great. Now he ghosted me since 5/6 and yesterday i sent a text on WhatsApp and today one on Insta saying i wasn’t mad and would be here for when he wants to talk again. I know… bad. But i just wanted to show i was okay and wanted to return one of his shirts i borrowed.

Now, how did you manifested someone who ghosted you? under these circumstances? Because he ghosted me on two apps. I wont send anything anymore, I have done my part, I just cant believe he did that. I know I was insecure during the first date because I didnt know him but everything was great and he said he liked so much.

And I got a tarot reading saying we will cross paths again, but i am anxious feeling like he is mad or laughing at me trying to contact him.

What to do now?

So i went out with a guy twice and it was really great and he said he liked too. But now i have been ghosted since 5/6 because i asked if he wanted to go out again. He still view my insta stories but doesnt like or respond to any of them. Did anyone manifest under this circumstances? Because he is not an ex he doesnt love me or has a lot to miss me for… i just want to go out with him again.

Since that day i have not send anything else

So i went out with someone new and i thought the date was not going to be sooo good. And I ended up having sex even tho it was the first date and the guy was soooo nice and sweet and we talked about everything and he told me it was so nice and wanted to see me again. And we did see each other again a few days later and it was good and nice again but then i kept thinking about how i was awkward and insecure about getting naked again and now he is ghosting me for 5 days and i just feel silly. That he remembers me as just insecure and silly and that it’s not worth it to go out with me again. Was i just used ? Did anyone manifest a guy back after being awkward and doing something that you regret? Its not an ex, we dont have a huge connection, i just wanted to get to know him better and go out on more dates you know? Maybe seeing each other again will clear things up.

I did not text again after getting left on read, but he still view my instagram storys (i did take him out of close friends because i felt i was being stupid by letting him there if he didnt text back in five days)