u/BigOdev

I have received an offer for 20+2 lpa as a senior consultant form CG in risk and finance.

I have couple of questions if someone can answer-

1. How is the work culture has the AI hire and fire wave hit CG yet? And how’s the atmosphere around it.
2. What are the WFH or Hybrid schedules generally and what companies outlook is on this.
3. Does CG in any form use any productivity tracking software?

Thanks to the community for their time.

I have met this girl(26F) in AM setup, I am 30M both different cities, we both have a very good communication also synergy when it comes to personalities and basic values. We hit off on day 1 we started talking, our families have not met yet we mutually decided that we will let them meet when we are soft confident that this might work out now we are just looking for a suitable timing for arranging the meeting and are very comfortable to take that step.

She has suggested that she wants to have a full blown relationship first that might include a live-in relationship and then give a final go ahead.
She wants to have a full experience of living together and also suggested that she’s interested and would have even made out if I was in the same town or she was near me.

We decided to have the relationship first then evaluate on the basis of it. However the relationship also was a very normal transition we never felt we had to put in any effort to convince each other for it, just over a discussion we decided she proposed and I accepted. I wanted to do it in a grand way but she said what’s wrong with text and just like that I had a girlfriend.

Is it something that’s normal to have sex and live in with out parents knowing in a AM setup?

We are open to discussions and they happen in a very good manner even tho we both want something else entirely.

Only issue I have with the girl is she’s ready to have kids also suggested to get her breast and uterus removed as she gets irritated by the monthly pain and issues.So she suggested to adopt one or get surrogacy.

I am fine with everything the relationship and ol but I really want my family to ahead with my genetics, I want kids she does not and it’s been hard to even talk on this because we end up on different tangents we understand each other but this is an major issue I see I cannot force her to have babies if she’s not willing neither I would ever force anyone.

I am concerned if this goes as per what we have decided with the relationship and still the kids issue stays I might have to end it.

Need legal due to the sex involved if it happens and emotional outlook if one of us falls then things go south on what the community thinks and have they seen such cases and how they turn out to be.

I value the relationship but I am worried if such things might spoil it as no matter what it’s a AM! My friends are telling me to be cautious as this can be used against me.

Thanks