u/BigSnekEnergy

I don't want friends. I don't want a partner. Just don't talk to me. I am seriously exhausted from all the bullshit. I'll talk with someone for a while and really hit it off, then they bring up us meeting up sometime. Everything's good. Except when we actually talk about setting things in stone like figuring out a meeting place, a day and a time. I guess you're not supposed to discuss those things? Unfortunately I'm not going to psychically be able to figure out where and when you want me to meet you unless you verbally tell me.

Maybe that's my problem. Maybe in modern times it's some kind of social faux pas to try and figure out those details but then again, how am I supposed to know?

I'm just done with everybody. Trying to make friends or date is mentally exhausting. If you are interested in dating or befriending me just bother someone because I don't want to deal with this anymore. If you don't want to spend time with me then don't say you do.

Ive been seeing someone since the end of February and I'm wondering if its time to break things off because I don't want to experience another slow fade. I would rather a person just rip the band aid off and dump me but people don't do that anymore. I'd rather be the one to end things if thats what's going on.

The last time we saw each other was Sunday. He's been texting me but not as much. I thought we'd get to see each other this weekend because thats what we normally do but we can't. His schedule is changing because he took on a second job. Sometimes it is difficult to see each other because our schedules are opposite each other anyway. By that, I mean I work Monday-Thursday in the daytime and he works Thursday-Saturday in the night time, but they scheduled him on Sunday this time.

He said he just needs a bit of time to himself to take care if things and that he will be back. He said that even though he can't see me on Sunday he wants to see me this Tuesday which might be possible for me because all I have to do then is give a presentation and on those days they usually let me leave early. However, that's what my ex said and that guy slow faded out of my life rather than actually breaking up with me and for some reason the slow fade is way more painful than a normal break up and I am not going through that again. I do NOT want to get played.

Does it seem like he's for sure losing interest? My friend doesn't think he is because he texted me a bunch day before yesterday (my phone kept going off while we were hanging out) but he hasn't talked to me as much today. He's still been texting, and some days he talks more than others but I have not heard as much from him today. I would rather end things early than be dragged through a slow painful fade out. Does it seem like hes losing interest or am I overreacting and he just needs some time?