u/Big_Bookkeeper6217

I’m not sure what to do. I’ve gone no contact with my mother for over three years now. Her husband was very abusive during my childhood in many ways. She stayed with him and defended him. It occurred to me three years ago that what happened to my siblings and I wasn’t okay. When I went no contact, it also severed contact between my mother and my daughter, who was 5 at the time & now is 8. My daughter loved my mom from a distance since it was mostly only video phone call as my mother lived far away. Should I restart contact? I’m feeling guilty that my daughter doesn’t have contact with her grandma since my mom only doted on her.