I found my fiancé making misogynistic comments online a month before our wedding. How do I approach this?
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Hi, this is my first time making a reddit post. Pardon me if there's any mistake.
I'm 23F and my fiancé is 26M. We're getting married next month, and it's going to be a small, intimate wedding. Recently, I found out that he's active in an anti-feminist Facebook group. I saw him leaving several comments that really shocked me.
For example, there was a post about a man cheating on his pregnant wife because of his "physical needs," and my fiancé commented in support of the husband, basically justifying the cheating. On another post, he agreed that women shouldn't work outside the home.
The confusing part is that throughout our relationship, he's always told me he fully supports my career and would never stop me from working.
Now I'm questioning whether I really know the person I'm about to marry. I love him, but these comments have made me feel like I've seen a completely different side of him. I haven't confronted him yet. I want to talk to him about this, but I'm not sure how to start the conversation. Any advice would be appreciated.