Problem with Porn use?
Needing some feedback because I am conflicted.
My boyfriend and I have been together two years and have a great relationship, friendship, and sex life. He truly is my best friend and he is a great partner.
I recently found out that he will masturbate to porn some mornings and then head off to work. He says that he is horny in the mornings and I get to work earlier than he does. He also says that he values his “personal alone time” with himself.
He lied to me about it and said it was because he felt ashamed. I’m trying to understand his point of view.
I used to be against porn, but if it never created an issue in our relationship until I found out about it then why does it make me so anxious and upset?
Also, the reality is most men watch porn… so I don’t think breaking up is the answer and I don’t want to break up. He’s my best friend.
How do I not be anxious and work through this? Any advice? Is this porn use truly an issue?
Thanks