u/Bitter-Sugar-2503

So I have 2bhk in harmu and my college is in lalpur when I went for hostel hunt all hostels were is such a petty condition with overprice. As I lived in kota for 2 years their hostels were too good and I think that it would be really a waste of money to put 8-9k for hostels with very basic to not good facilities not mentioning the shitty food they provide everywhere. So I'm thinking to stay in my flat though it's 5km from lalpur all I would have to manage is rapido for travelling (2k-2.5k per mnths) and I'll have to cook on my own which won't cost much

Is it good or should I stay in hostel?

Though I couldn't get into mbbs , sometimes I think I should've given my best despite everything I faced. But there's other side of medicine no one talks about. So hey to everybody who's into medicine please demotivate me for doing mbbs 😂. And please state every dark reality of this field here. And some pros too. Is it really worth it the level of efforts patience and mental stress?

I don't think it's worth becoming a doc for me in this thankless country nd sacrifice everything for selfish people who just wants to get a good treatment for their needs and fulfillment. And in return doc doesn't receive much and blessings are really nothing these days u don't get to live happy , peaceful and satisfactory life with only blessings. I don't think this profession would really align with my goals now I want to earn in 5-6 yrs and live a happy and peaceful personal life along with doing my job/work. Travel and spend full time with family in weekends. Coz at the end what I realised ki with time competition is increasing nd 10years down the line there's not much guarantee of mbbs pg would be very much valuable or its roi will be good for the efforts , hardwork, sacrifice u put for this profession. I'm changing my path to BBA now.. will go for masters or some government exams.

So I'm a 21yo F . Nd I'm in the relationship since I was just 13yo though it started with immaturity but as time went, we both knew we're gonna be together in the upcoming years too. So here's the short crisp story, my family doesn't allow intercaste marriages and "kundali milaan" is the utmost important thing to them if you're kundali isn't matching then they won't accept the marriage. I really think that it's the most bullshit thing to let go my bf just bcoz of this and that too coz of paper written prediction. Though I respect that knowledge and ancient things from which this astrology came from but bro in this era what are your qualities and mindset will matter the most in the relationship. He's not from so well financial background too and I'm a manglik person. so this thing has created a pure mess now. I really don't want to leave him . What should I do? Do u all really beleive so blindly in this kundali milaan and predictions?