u/Black_n_Buckles

Losing my mind a little bit...

My biometrics appointment is tomorrow and anxiety has FULLY taken over me.

I was on a Grad Visa till April 2026 but was waiting for my UK Final Order of Divorce to come through which it did in May 2026.

Last year, I had my divorce finalised from my home country but I was unaware that the Home Office needed a UK divorce as I had sponsored my ex while I was on a Student Visa.

My fiance and I are currently in a long distance and it's already emotionally and financially draining us.

I just saw, on the divorce certificate from my home country my religion is mentioned "Muslim" which I am not. Asked ChatGPT and it said as I belong to a Muslim country it is often the default setting and it comes under admin error and I should not worred about this. But then my passport says Chrisitianity under religion so won't this be something the caseworker questions?!

And the other thing, my address on the divorce certificate is incorrect. It does not even show a conplete address, just the name of a random city which I am not from. I know I should have looked at this information sooner and I am now regretting is. I was in the UK at the time of the divorce and my ex flew back to our home country with the signed divorce papers and submitted them to the lawyer.

I know these are minor details but do I need to address then in any way???

I'm so afraid this will come across as dishonesty
and I will be on a 10 year ban!
I planned to marry last year but couldn't because of the missing UK Final Order, and Im so afraid my last divorce will again cause some kind of trouble :(

Can anyone please suggest what to do :(

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u/Black_n_Buckles — 5 days ago

Last Song I'm Wasting On You

Does anyone remember this song?

I was listening to Forever Without You today and it kept reminding me of this song. I'm certain both songs share a mutual "theme" as well.

All seriousness aside, I'm glad it wasn't the last song "wasted" on Ben - they're all bangers! 😂

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u/Black_n_Buckles — 13 days ago

Applied for a Fiance Visa

Hello everyone!

My fiance and I applied for the Fiance Visa last night and I now have to upload the documents on the third party portal.

I'm just feeling a bit anxious going over the checklist again and again - can someone please help me in case I am missing something?

These are the documents I have gathered so far:

- His salary slips of 6 months
- My Masters degree from UK
- I was previoulsy married so my divorce ceritficate
- Our Tenency Agreement (we lived together while I was in the UK from Aug 2025 - April 2026)
- We will be moving in with his mom and sister and they rent their house from a Housing Association - we will get a letter from them confirming this and I will attach rhat as proof of accomodation.
- My TB test result
- Council Tax with both our names
- Joint Account Bank Statement
- Passport Copies
- Pictures of our trips together and with family
- Call logs and Whatsapp Chat screenshots
- an email chain with the Registry Office about booking a ceremony; they advised they can't book a ceremony before I get my Fiance Visa and that an email sent from them stating this is the proof the give for Fiance/Spouse Visa purposes.

I was previously married when I was in the UK as a student and brought my ex over as a Dependant Spouse to the UK. The relationship did not work and we filed for a divorce in my home country and have the certificate to prove it. What I did not realise was that I needed a UK Divorce Certificate for the HO to recognizey divorce - which I received on the 22nd of May 2026.
However my current partner just visited my home country with me and we had an engagement ceremony on the 2nd of May 2026. Will this timeline cause any troubles, that I got engaged before my UK divorce certificate came through?

Another concern I have is that we started dating last year in April and I didnt move in with him till August and the Tenancy Agreement was signed this year in Feb - it doesnt really fit the 2 year mark so I am worried about that as well!

We also haven't bought anything like rings or wedding dresses yet so would that also be a cause of concern?

I'll appreciate all the help I can get!!!

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u/Black_n_Buckles — 24 days ago
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Red spots on my nose, could it be the mask?

Hello everyone!

I started using the CPAP in November and I'm recently noticing these spots on my nose and I'm suspecting it could be the mask? Im currently using the F40 mask.

I'm getting these red bumps that dont itch or hurt and nor is there any pus.
I clean my mask once a week but this has only begun to happen recently.

I was previously in the UK and I'm now in Pakistan since May and these have become more frequent so I am wondering if the change in the climate has something to do with it?
Although it stared back in April while I was still in the UK, but back then it was a few spots and not this bad.

For now I'm using an anti-bacterial ointment on my nose before putting on the mask and it helps calm it down a little bit but if I stop they come back!

Has anyone else experienced this? Please help if you can I am so worried!

Thank you!

u/Black_n_Buckles — 30 days ago