u/Blakceto

This AH mom took our place at a trampoline at the lunapark. My hands were full and my mouth was full, so I couldn't put my kid on it like she shamelessly did. So I called her shitty and she snuggly smiled in my face. I was soon done because it was sooo hot, so I shoved the pancake in my mouth and went behind the trampoline and started chanting some gibberish and did some weird gestures with my hands and she took her kid and left ☺️ it helped a lot I think that I looked like a mess. She wasn't smug after that lol

I live in a large house that I clean myself, and it's in the contract that I have to clean it so that my bills can be paid instead of a cleaning lady. My personal schedule was hectic and after 3 years I asked the landlord to find a nice girl, so that we can share the chores. They found a girl from another country and as I'm also a foreigner here, I felt the need to not lay it all in her the first few weeks and explain the chores as I go, as they unfold. Big mistake on my part, because it turned into a nightmare for me.

The first month I didn't even asked her to take out the trash, nor clean. She seemed depressed and out of it, so I let it be. Then the second month, one by one, I told her where every trash bin is, when they collect it, what needs to be cleaned and so forth. She didn't clean, take the trash out for collecting, nothing. Then I had to print out a schedule where we take turns weekly. She cleaned once and that was it. I sent her a screenshot of the trash schedule, she pretended she sidn see it. Downstairs looks like a haunted house, because I haven't cleaned a month after I let her two three months to go without her cleaning and I cleaned myself.

She does clean the kitchen after herself, I won't say she doesn't. But the whole kitchen, like cabinets, the backsplash, the windows, none of that gets cleaned. So I told the landlord and I found out, no one explained anything to her. But I did told her that I have that in my contract, that I have to keep the house clean. And they made her a new contract, where it says she has to clean the whole house. Àgain, nothing. So I want to address this again with our landlord and I ask him to tell her, because it's been two weeks since she signed and she still doesn't want to clean.

To be fair, I'm a messy beach. I leave stuff around the house at random and my laundry stays on the rack for a week, but otherwise, I try to keep clean. I make a lot more trash and I take out the trash twice a week and I let her take it out once, and the week I was angry about all of this and reported to the landlord, I said to him I'm not cleaning anymore and he said, that's fair. I took the trash twice that week, and immediately the next day, she filled the bio trash to almost full, and left it for 4 days. When I woke up the forth day, flies had pooped eggs all over and inside the cabinet, it was a disaster zone, to see smell and clean. Did you know those eggs stick to everything as you try to clean them??? I wrote her a message because she doesn't really leave her room, and she turned on me, saying I'm leaving trash everywhere and that she cleaned fly eggs when my mom was here, which is pure B's. She even said she didn't clean the windows because I have flowers on the sill, like girl, move them. And that's only one window that my flowers are in, there are like 15 in the entire house. So she acts like I'm the AH and refuses to clean to this day...