u/BluntlyBlessed

18 [F4M] Looking for friends to chat with and books.

I am looking for people to talk to. I am from the US (Tennessee). I am an introvert, who loves to read dark romance books, and dystopia. I am new to snapchat. I graduated high school 2 weeks ago, and am pursuing a Forensic Science career, when I go to college in 2 months. My favorite anime is JoJo's Bizarre Adventure. I love Stranger Things and IT Welcome To Derry. I also love the Scream franchise, Five Night's At Freddy's, and Super Mario. Anyways hit me up if yall wanna talk about movies, shows, books, or just need someone to talk too.

Have a good day yall

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u/BluntlyBlessed — 9 hours ago
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Do I need off work for nexplanon implant and nervous?

So, I'm supposed to get the nexplanon implant next Friday, so 5 days before my next period. I am right handed, so I am going to request they put it in my left arm. They have me scheduled for a morning appointment around 8am. Then I have work that evening. My job requires me to be able to lift boxes and heavy stuff. And they are not the best when it comes to cleanliness or letting me have a bathroom break. We have a new manager and he is not very friendly and always has me as the only cashier. Obviously if I get the implant and I have work.. theres a chance I could bleed, and he doesn't allow me to go to the bathroom, if I am the only cashier for the night. He has managed to mess everyone's schedules up. I am thinking about finding another job with better pay, and actually being treated like a human being.

Can anyone provide their experience with the procedure. I've never had an implant and I've been off of birth control pills for 1 year and a half now. I am an 18 year old black woman and graduated high school last week. My options are Iud, Nuvaring, or Nexplanon because pills and depo never worked.

My doctor does not want me getting an Iud, since I had a hymenectomy 2 years ago from being born with an imperforate hymen. It was because I was born 3 months early and weighed 2 pounds as a premature baby. I have not tried tampons.. I have always used overnight size 5 maxi pads. And I had my first period when I was 9 years old in 3rd grade.

Also what should I do if the implant does not work for me. I need an option where I can stop bleeding a lot. There's no pain or cramps, but I'm sick of messing up my clothing. And the doctors said, I dont have pcos or endo or anything. They do not know why my body does what it does. 🥴

Thank yall 😊💜

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u/BluntlyBlessed — 2 days ago

Should I make a facebook account?

Good morning. Lately, I have been wanting to have a facebook account, after having Instagram for a year. I am 18 years old. I like Instagram reels, but I honestly get bored of the same social media app. I am an only child, so that might be another reason, I feel lonely. I also like Reddit, but I am not on here as much. I want to connect with more people, so I was thinking Facebook might be a good idea. I will keep in mind to obviously not post personal details etc for personal safety. Also if I make a facebook then would it let me use the same meta account as my Instagram?

Im not very experienced with social media, since my mom never really allowed it, and always made me have her on my Instagram page, so she could control what I post. Obviously, after I turned 18 a month ago, I blocked her off my page, since the phone is mine, and I pay for it, and it's in my name. Same with my Ipad. I was also able to get a new social security card and birth certificate. Im probaly gonna start my own bank account next, so she can stop taking money out my account.

Advice needed. Thank you 💜 😊

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u/BluntlyBlessed — 2 days ago

Weird encounter 5/12/26

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Angel on doorstep maybe.. idk but here's the context:

So yesterday I was in a very stressful situation and everything had been going wrong. This whole month has been filled with stress, so I've been reading my Bible more and praying. Plus I had an important meeting yesterday.

Well I get home and I shower. So an hour later, this dude appears on my doorstep. He looked really youthful and has this bright glow. He was trying to promote this ring camera service, which is ironic since I already have a ring camera. So my mom was talking through the camera and told me to close the door. With ring cameras u can talk through the phone, even if your not near the house.

I was being nice to the dude because even though he is a stranger, he deserves kindness. The dude goes "it is ok and have a blessed day." He then gave me a thumbs up and smiled at me. I felt very peaceful like that stress had been lifted off my shoulders. Also he didn't have a car or anything. It's like he appeared out of thin air and then disappeared.

I normally do not open the door for strangers but I didn't care and felt like this was important. Well for starters the ring camera did not go off.. but the doorbell did. I could not find this dude on the ring camera at all after he disappeared?? It was like he was there to deliver a message or something??

Anyways. Thx for listening. I'm still shocked over what happened. And I keep searching through the ring camera but it's unexplainable.

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u/BluntlyBlessed — 10 days ago
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Marines part time or college?

So, I need help making a decision. I was recently approached by a marine recruiter and I am considering joining the marines part time through reserves. However, I'm suppose to go to college in 2 months for Forensic Science.

Me and my parents do not have a good relationship, and my mom is constantly threatening to kick me out, and etc. Also graduation is this week. If I did join the Marines part time then it would help with college pay and stuff. My mom does not want me to join, but my recruiter said it's my choice since I am 18. It would also, get me away from my controlling family, and I could still do Forensic Science. The recruiter even tried to talk to my mom on phone call, and she hung up on him and sent me a rude message.

The only problem is, my mom will not give me my social security card, or my birth certificate. So, I would need a way to get copies of those. The recruiter also told me there will be a time in life where I will have to make my own decisions. Also my mom takes money out of my checks and will not give me my bank card.

Advice needed thank you. Located in the United States for context. Also I am an only child. I am an 18 year old black female.

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u/BluntlyBlessed — 12 days ago
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Which flavor should I try? The coke cola one looks good. And they have French vanilla. I have never had this brand before but it all looks delicious 😋

u/BluntlyBlessed — 19 days ago
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Hi yall. I am new to reddit, so I am sorry if I do not structure everything correctly.

Can yall recommend some bible verses or chapters for a young female who just turned 18 last week, and is trying to overcome feeling alone or like an outcast.

Thank you for the support 🙏 💜

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u/BluntlyBlessed — 29 days ago