u/Bobe16

I met this girl IRL. I am 24M she is 21F. She's from mexico city, I live in the USA. I am not sure how to view this at all. Tomorrow marks 1 month, but I just dont know what's happening. The first week texting was great, we called twice, exchanged voice notes. The other 3 weeks were filled with confusion. She had alot of things going on like family problems/ deaths, and I sat back and tried being as supportive as possible. She always ends up returning, and apologizes constantly about disappearing. What do I do? How do I continue down this road and build long term?

Hey everyone. I need some advice. I met this girl at a bar a couple weeks ago. We hit it off and I felt like the connection was strong. Unfortunately she lives in Mexico city, and I am in the USA. Besides that, when she got back we texted pretty regularly for about a week , including 2 phone calls. She then had a family issue come up, failed a class, and everything started going downhill. A 6 day gap between texts occurred, but she did reengage, saying sorry and explaining everything that went on during that week. Only problem was the texting/voice conversation would only hold if I cought the text immediately when she sent it. Then a day passed, then she sent a 4 min voice message apologizing and explaining her day. I replied, but she hasn't listened to my reply and its been 4 days. What am I supposed to think/do? I am kinda at a loss. If someone could dm me I could send screenshots, but im honestly confused. 23M she is 21F