AITA, for breaking up a 4-5 months relationship due to a lie that my girlfriend told me early on?
Hi, I 25M dated a girl 24F. I see myself as someone with partially strict boundaries. I am not old school I just simply don’t believe sex and physical stuff are without feelings and trust.
Went on a date with this girl, we were not on a relationship, after the first date, she told me tomorrow I am gonna go one a trip with my girl friends, we kept flirting, video calling and chatting whenever we could during her trip, she came back we went on a second date, and we had sex(yeah I don’t like it to be this soon but I have no idea wtf happened) fast forward 4 months later I remember this story of her going on a trip, something was missing.
I asked her what has happened, and she kept dodging the question, finally I asked her was that a hookup? She again said no and then she said yes. So turned out that she was hooking up with a guy casually while also dating with me, We were not on a relationship tho, but that guy knew it was just a hookup and I had no idea, that she is also sleeping with another guy and we are having sex exactly two days after.
At first, I got disgusted and felt like a piece of shit, then I found out it was also unprotected, ours was but that also added on top of this shitshow. I am not sick but this whole scenario is like crazy for me.
First, I wanted to ask how should I deal with this feeling, of being lied and played. And then, were you guys also feel the same as me or I am just a pussy?