u/BoredResurrections

I recently joined a discord server for trans people, in my native language. The description said something like "for everyone who's trans (non-binary, agender, genderfluid and even questioning people)" but.... But all of the most active members are binary trans and transfemme, while I'm agender and masc leaning.

They're all very nice people, they never made me feel bad or anything, but I feel like I don't belong there – they all talk about HRT, dysphoria and about medical transitioning, and I feel like I'm invading their special space. I don't even identify as trans exactly for this reason, because I'm not dysphoric (anymore) and all I do is to put some clothes on and "play a part", since gender has no meaning for me. It's the only server in my language that's not broadly LGBTQ+, but only focused on gender-diverse people, and I hoped I would find some other NB/agender folks in there...

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So I have a size 36C (80C in European measurements), which is not gigantic but it's not small either. I want to try taping cause using a binder during summer is just not possible for me. I'll try with some cheap kinesiologic tape before buying the serious and expensive stuff.

Beside the size, my chest feels...kind of dense? Like there's much glandular tissue or something (yuck), and it doesn't feel very "squishable" or "foldable". So my question is: is it possible to effectively bind a chest of this size?

I'd prefer to know from people who have or had a similar type of chest, but everyone's input is accepted! Mind you that my goal isn't to pass as a dude or to have a "100% natural looking male" flat chest, just to get rid of it enough to not having to wear a bra.

So there's this 2010s folk song whose title may or may not be "Rattlesnakes and bones" — but if I look for it with that title, I can't find it.

The genre is folk, but let's say "hipster folk" rather than "hillbilly folk". Similar to The Handsome Family style, but less dark. The singers are a young man and a woman dressed almost in a steampunk way and the video is set in this abandoned house full of dust and animal bones (like buffalos' skulls). I don't remember what the song is about but they often repeat the title, which may be "rattlesnakes and bones" or maybe "dust and bones" something along the line that makes you think of the desert.

The video was shot professionally but this duo wasn't famous and this was likely their only song at the time.

It was a really nice song but it's like it never existed and I dreamed about it :(