u/Both_Perspective_Net

I think we need to look into the psychology behind this . There might be people who might benefit from this post . That's why i wanted to post this because the recent BTS / Chris Brown controversy clearly showed a division between Army . Certain fans stood with their morals even though they love BTS madly . Certain fans are defending BTS . Certain go to the extent to even report an organisation which donate to DV victims.

There are 3 type of fans who are defending BTS right now.

Category 1 - These people dont have morals. It is as simple as that.

Category 2 - These people have morals. But they lack self love severely. So only thing they do is in life to feel loved is being obsessed with celebrities and form a parasocial relationship with them . In the process, they build their own reality of who these celebrities are which actually is completely different from these celebrities' real personality. So these fans think that their version of these celebrities are incapable of doing anything wrong. So whatever these celebrities do , they come up with different excuses to protect their imagination that these celebrities are doing nothing wrong , so they can continue to stan them without their moral compass judging them. In their own make believe reality , they have morals , their idols are simply not doing anything wrong.

3. Some people have no Empathy. When they have no empathy , they cannot understand what these domestic violence / rape victims are gping through

It is as simple as that.

If the fans who falls under the 2nd category start to love themselves and connecting with real life freinds , getting exposed to real life and getting educated on different social issues /feminism /humanity /self growth and self love , they actually can get better and recover from this fucked up mindset.

But first of all , they need to accept the reality that the reason why they are this parasocial is because they do not love themselves. They seek that missing love within someone who is not actually available to them. Secondly , they themsekves should get the need to get out of this parasocial situation. Third , they need to take neccesary steps to get out of it , such as , going therapy , consuming self growth self love content. Trying to bomd with real life people and start having real life relationships. Or focus on own goals. If they do all these , these people can change.

Theres no hope for category 3 at all. They simply cant understand what is wrong.

Maybe there is a hope for category 1. If morals can be taught later in life or if something happens to them which leads towards them developing morals themselves . Then maybe they will change.

I think we need to look into the psychology behind this . There might be people who might benefit from this post . That's why i wanted to post this because the recent BTS / Chris Brown controversy clearly showed a division between Army . Certain fans stood with their morals even though they love BTS madly . Certain fans are defending BTS . Certain go to the extent to even report an organisation which donate to DV victims.

There are 3 type of fans who are defending BTS right now.

Category 1 - These people dont have morals. It is as simple as that.

Category 2 - These people have morals. But they lack self love severely. So only thing they do is in life to feel loved is being obsessed with celebrities and form a parasocial relationship with them . In the process, they build their own reality of who these celebrities are which actually is completely different from these celebrities' real personality. So these fans think that their version of these celebrities are incapable of doing anything wrong. So whatever these celebrities do , they come up with different excuses to protect their imagination that these celebrities are doing nothing wrong , so they can continue to stan them without their moral compass judging them. In their own make believe reality , they have morals , their idols are simply not doing anything wrong.

3. Some people have no Empathy. When they have no empathy , they cannot understand what these domestic violence / rape victims are gping through

It is as simple as that.

If the fans who falls under the 2nd category start to love themselves and connecting with real life freinds , getting exposed to real life and getting educated on different social issues /feminism /humanity /self growth and self love , they actually can get better and recover from this fucked up mindset.

But first of all , they need to accept the reality that the reason why they are this parasocial is because they do not love themselves. They seek that missing love within someone who is not actually available to them. Secondly , they themsekves should get the need to get out of this parasocial situation. Third , they need to take neccesary steps to get out of it , such as , going therapy , consuming self growth self love content. Trying to bomd with real life people and start having real life relationships. Or focus on own goals. If they do all these , these people can change.

Theres no hope for category 3 at all. They simply cant understand what is wrong.

Maybe there is a hope for category 1. If morals can be taught later in life or if something happens to them which leads towards them developing morals themselves . Then maybe they will change.

I will help you to get over that. THIS IS MY REPLY TO ANOTHER POST SOMEONE TELLING THEY STILL WANT TO LEARN LEAVE THEIR SOFT SPOT FOR YOONGI. IN THE LATER PART, I AM TALKING ABOUT HOW THEY ALL ARE GENERALLY TREATING ARMY THINKING ARMY IS JUST FOOLISH GIRLS.

Just think how he uploaded a pic with j hope the day he went to the concert of a rapist and women beater , so j hope could repost that pic in his instagram story with a "sope" sticker. Yeah as the army says it has been years since he has done such . J hope hyping sope. So yoongi also actively took part in bts' PR tactics to cover up bts scandal and act like nothing happened. He took part in that , it means he also wanted to silence the women who demanded an apology . He also said an " indirect fuck you " to their DV victim fans and assault victim fans . Isnt that enogh reason to understand he is no different ?

even taekook duo posted a thirst trap that day out of the blue to avert fandom outrage and turn in to lust. This is how they treat their fans. They think that they can show some skin , post some thirst trap , feed into fan ships and suddenly the female fandom will forget their fight. That is how dumb they think their fans are. I think this is enough reason for you to unstan yoongi. Even jimin took part in the PR stunt to cover BTS Scandal by coming online after many days to comment on few peoples instagram reels , so fans will avert their attention from the real issue to him. So even jimin fans cant justify him.

They all showed lots of skinn on today concert. Again thirst trapping . Jimin even deliberately showed his nipple several times deliberately acting like he is removing a tape from his jacket . And most of them were in tank tops. Even jimin asked from his fans to give the loudest cheers today ( as army confirm , he doesnt do this in other shows ) . Out of nowhere tae hyung has gone to fans side and shook his hands with few fans. And jimin has kissed a cancer patient kid army on the cheek to create a moment. Even yoongi has come in weverse live few moments before the actual concert which army confirms as very unusual for yoongi these days. They ALL think that their female fans are just lustful and dumb , so by showing few skin and feeding to ships will stop the half of the fandom demanding an apology or justice.

This is enough reason for anyone to leave that small soft spot they have for certain members. THEY SIMPLY DONT RESPECT YOU .THEY THINK YOU ARE JUST LUSTFUL DELULU PARASOCIAL FANS THAT CAN BE MANIPULATED IN ORDER TO GET UNLIMITED STREAMS ON THEIR SONGS AND CAN BE USED IN MULTIPLE FAN WARS.