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I 18F have been in a relationship with my boyfriend 18M for just over 3 months. We go to the same college and we meet on a trip away. Yes I may be young, dumb and in love but I am very conflicted right now. For general background information we are in a long distance relationship neither of us can drive and it’s about 2 1/2 hour journey by public transport. A month before the incident happened I was no longer attending college and we weren’t seeing each other as much.

At the beginning it was the type of relationship where everything was perfect and I felt like I had found my other half. We were very compatible in the things we liked and the things we did, but we were still ourselves and didn’t lose ourselves in the relationship.

Anyway my boyfriend was at a party and texted me around 1am after a lot of beating around the bush, he eventually told me that he had made out with someone at the party. In my eyes, he has cheated on me, especially being the fact that before this we haven’t seen each other in over two weeks and we’re going through a ruff patch. This person he made out with is a non-binary mask or a trans man in not entirely sure but they present more non-binary and they have feminine features. The night/morning he told me I was distraught, I was completely heart broken, I could not sleep. I was most likely going to break up with him but he confessed the next day that he might be bisexual. I feel like this changes the situation, it doesn’t change the fact that he cheated on me.

My feelings about the situation changed after he told me he thinks he might be bisexual, although he did cheat on me, he is discovering himself. He said before they made out, he never thought he was bi. I’m not sure whether it was a relief because he didn’t just cheat on but after you told me he thinks he might be bisexual cheating feels less and more forgivable. However, before this situation he has never discussed or thought about the desire to be with anyone but woman.

We have had a brief conversation about it, but as long distance we haven’t been able to properly talk about it in person he says that he still wants to be with me and I feel like we can make it work.

Is it a bad idea to get stay with someone who cheated on you?
Does him realising that he might be bisexual change the situation?

I 18F have been in a relationship with my boyfriend 18M for just over 3 months. We go to the same college and we meet on a trip away. Yes I may be young, dumb and in love but I am very conflicted right now. For general background information we are in a long distance relationship neither of us can drive and it’s about 2 1/2 hour journey by public transport. A month before the incident happened I was no longer attending college and we weren’t seeing each other as much.

At the beginning it was the type of relationship where everything was perfect and I felt like I had found my other half. We were very compatible in the things we liked and the things we did, but we were still ourselves and didn’t lose ourselves in the relationship.

Anyway my boyfriend was at a party and texted me around 1am after a lot of beating around the bush, he eventually told me that he had made out with someone at the party. In my eyes, he has cheated on me, especially being the fact that before this we haven’t seen each other in over two weeks and we’re going through a ruff patch. This person he made out with is a non-binary mask or a trans man in not entirely sure but they present more non-binary and they have feminine features. The night/morning he told me I was distraught, I was completely heart broken, I could not sleep. I was most likely going to break up with him but he confessed the next day that he might be bisexual. I feel like this changes the situation, it doesn’t change the fact that he cheated on me.

My feelings about the situation changed after he told me he thinks he might be bisexual, although he did cheat on me, he is discovering himself. He said before they made out, he never thought he was bi. I’m not sure whether it was a relief because he didn’t just cheat on but after you told me he thinks he might be bisexual cheating feels less and more forgivable. However, before this situation he has never discussed or thought about the desire to be with anyone but woman.

We have had a brief conversation about it, but as long distance we haven’t been able to properly talk about it in person he says that he still wants to be with me and I feel like we can make it work.

TL;DR - my boyfriend made out a non-binary mask/transgender Man at a party and I don’t know what to do.

Is it a bad idea to get stay with someone who cheated on you?
Does him realising that he might be bisexual change the situation?