u/Brave-Hand4785

I'm a 20-year-old guy, and I honestly don't know why I find it so hard to talk to girls.

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I'd say I'm more of an ambivert. I have a decent friend circle and a few close friends, but they're all guys. Before the COVID lockdowns, I had some female friends and could talk to them normally. But after that phase, things kind of changed.

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In both +2 and now during my bachelor's, there have only been a few girls in my classes, and I've always been the type to sit at the back and keep to myself. It's not that I completely freeze or can't speak to girls. If a girl talks to me, I'll answer normally and have a conversation related to whatever she asked. But I've never been the one to start a conversation first.

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What's weird is that I'm very comfortable talking with my older sister (she's 6 years older than me). We joke around, laugh a lot, and I'm also pretty talkative with my friends. So I don't think it's a general social anxiety issue.

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I'm just curious if anyone else has been like this. How did you get over it? Any advice would be appreciated.

I've recently learned React and built a few projects with it. My long-term interests are Cyber Security, AI, and Machine Learning, which makes me wonder if focusing on Python and Django would be a better choice.

If my goal is to become a full-stack developer while keeping the door open for AI/ML and security in the future, which path would you recommend and why?

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I'd love to hear from people who have experience with either stack. Thanks!

I've recently learned React and built a few projects with it. My long-term interests are Cyber Security, AI, and Machine Learning, which makes me wonder if focusing on Python and Django would be a better choice.

If my goal is to become a full-stack developer while keeping the door open for AI/ML and security in the future, which path would you recommend and why?

I'd love to hear from people who have experience with either stack. Thanks!

I've recently learned React and built a few projects with it. My long-term interests are Cyber Security, AI, and Machine Learning, which makes me wonder if focusing on Python and Django would be a better choice.

If my goal is to become a full-stack developer while keeping the door open for AI/ML and security in the future, which path would you recommend and why?

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I'd love to hear from people who have experience with either stack. Thanks!