u/Brave-Sympathy-9359

I am 20f and was limerant on older 20s male in my college campus and this was mainly a couple of months ago but now we only see each other once in a week in the hallways because of class overlap and he stalls near my line of vision, or takes the escalator right in front of me (he usually walks down to take the other one). This week, I have moved out, starting a new job, transferring colleges very soon, and just so many life changes including finals coming up. We are both stem majors which means we are taking such rigorous classes. I’ve felt so disloyal to him because i am thinking of him less right now— a lot less and usually when I am so busy, or see other cute guys, I don’t think of him super duper much. Was i ever limerant? Used to be obsessed with him but whenever I think of him too much, it’s like he feels it and doesn’t put effort into seeing me anymore.

He had a gf, loves to go to artsy places (from his wallpaper), and finals are coming up for him too as well as summer. But yet on the single day we see each other he still stalls to stare at me and create proximity. What’s going on in his mind? Does he love me? Is it still limerence?

I’m (9+10)