Me (23F), My boyfriend(35M) hasn't been responding to my texts or calls unless he's the one initiating it
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TL;DR : My boyfriend hasn't been responding to my texts or calls unless he's the one initiating it? Can he be trusted? Is he serious about the relationship?
Me (23f) recently started talking to this guy (35M). He made it official that he's looking for a wife , not a girlfriend. I was like well, I'm ready to be one coz he seems someone trustworthy and likeable.
It's been a month now, we've only met thrice and all were in a Airbnb. No official date. He's promised quite a lot but none has been fulfilled.
He even wants me to have his baby. Be a stay home mom and such.
The issue is he's unavailable emotionally, whenever I call him he doesn't pick and doesn't call back. If he calls back he'll just be like he's in a meeting or doing sth he'll call back later but he doesn't. I get he's a busy guy with lot to handle but I also need him. He also travels a lot for work/business
He said that the only thing that would make him leave is if I cheat...he checked my phone in one of the meetups and he found nothing coz well, I'm serious about him.
The only time we get to talk in depth is when we meet. (Those 3 meetups). ..coz if it's chatting he tends to make it sexual or more of convincing me to get his baby and only initiates the chats....if I text him, he doesn't respond.
Could he really be serious? Can he be trusted