u/BrightWoman-581

My husband and i have a good marriage 35 years and are close. One of our older dogs fell on the steps today while I was holding the door open for her to come up. Husband ran down the steps and picked her up around her waist and I watched for him to put her back on her feet on the steps. He yelled, “do something!” (he rarely yells) and I let go of the door and ran down the steps to help lift our dog’s front paws so she could get back on her feet.
She’s fine, and this has happened before when he’s taken her outside on his own without my help.
Being yelled at really bothered me. My dad yelled at me all the time growing up and I just cannot handle being yelled at. I took a shower to calm down. Husband didn’t apologize and continued to leave for his workout.
I’m sure i probably should have recognized that my help was needed and not just stood there when our dog stumbled. I didn’t realize husband needed my help. I thought he had it. But it still bothers me, my heart is aching because of being yelled at. I’ve dealt with similar things in counseling but it looks like this is a problem I’ll have to address.
Anyone want to offer some friendly advice? No yelling please lol (sad) and thanks.

My husband and i have a good marriage 35 years and are close. One of our older dogs fell on the steps today while I was holding the door open for her to come up. Husband ran down the steps and picked her up around her waist and I watched for him to put her back on her feet on the steps. He yelled, “do something!” (he rarely yells) and I let go of the door and ran down the steps to help lift our dog’s front paws so she could get back on her feet.
She’s fine, and this has happened before when he’s taken her outside on his own without my help.
Being yelled at really bothered me. My dad yelled at me all the time growing up and I just cannot handle being yelled at. I took a shower to calm down. Husband didn’t apologize and continued to leave for his workout.
I’m sure i probably should have recognized that my help was needed and not just stood there when our dog stumbled. I didn’t realize husband needed my help. I thought he had it. But it still bothers me, my heart is aching because of being yelled at. I’ve dealt with similar things in counseling but it looks like this is a problem I’ll have to address.
Anyone want to offer some friendly advice? No yelling please lol (sad) and thanks.

I’m considering offering to tutor beginning French as an online tutor.
My experience is 8-10 years in school, college and Alliance Française classes. Despite my education, my accent and conversation is enough to please native French speakers.
I love French conversation especially when it’s deep into emotions and philosophies.
Je peux écrire en Français assez bien. Je ne connais pas tout les mots pour utiliser dans tout des conversations, mais j’ai assez du vocabulaire pour m’exprimer et pour écouter aux autres.
Je vous en prie, suggérez-vous les idées pour moi; je n’ai pas peur à commencer au début!
Le point pour moi c’est que j’admire la langue et la culture, les gens et leur aimant pour La France. Je voudrais la partager avec qui la même sentiment s’intéresse.
Merci,
Karen