u/Brilliant-Carrot-466

Problem/Goal: In all honesty, would you accept a position at BIR knowing that corruption is widespread there? We all know the state of our country’s economy nowadays. Will you resort to corruption for stability?

Context: I am an accountancy graduate and some of my friends work at BIR. In just a year, they already have a car, upgraded to the latest iphone and travelled to several countries. I feel left behind in life seriously. I am a Virtual Assistant earning about 40,000 - 50,000 per month. I also help with our household expenses.

Previous Attempts: I took an exam last February 2026 at BIR and passed both the written exam and interview but i have not selected for those who will be given plantilla positions last April. They said, I can still be chosen within 5 years.

How will you describe a decent girl? There are girls who wear revealing clothes but still commands respect right? What characteristics a girl have that makes you admire or label a girl as decent? Thank you so much to those who will reply!!

To the men who have a strong marriage and can say they chose the right woman, what characteristics did you initially look for in your partner?

I am female, 25 years old, NBSB. I am very reserved. Do guys want kalog girls or demure ones?

Hi! I am female, 25 years old. I am NBSB and I also never had ka-MU before. I was an achiever in school. - very very focused on my studies! I dress up well too and is fairly good looking! 🤭 I am working now and also taking my Master’s Degree. What do you think of us? Do we look boring to you guys? Or do we look intimidating?

Was there a time when you liked a girl but did not pursue her because you think you might just disturb her?

I never had a romantic relationship but how do guys fall in love? Do they also cannot stop thinking about the girl? Do they really spend for the girls they like? Do they also try the girl’s interests? And, how can a girl make the guy fall deeply in love with her? Do you think a relationship will last longer if that is the case?

Hi! I just want to know your organic encounters! I never had a boyfriend and my cousins are teasing me about going to a certain place or doing an activity so I could also have my organic encounter! Share yours😉

I am female, 25 years old, NBSB. I have crushes but they always end up not liking me back. After some time, they now have girlfriends and I sensed that their girls came from a wealthy family. We are not that rich. Do you think that is a major factor why my crushes did not like me back? Is that the case for you too gentlemen out there??

However, my relatives are rich. We have an attorney, accountant, criminologist, teachers and doctors in the family! I am also the studious type of girl! I am very self-focused as well and I can say that I dress up well too and modesty aside, I look fairly good! But, I am very reserved and I am a homebody!

Or maybe, they get intimidated by my relatives?

What do you guys think based on my context?

Hello! I am 25 years old and I never had a romantic relationship and even ka-MU. My guy friend told me that many guys actually admire me. I laughed it off but was actually bothered by such because I was admired but never pursued. I am an achiever in school (became a Valedictorian) and I also dress up well, I am tall and has a curvy figure. I won Prom Queen back in highschool. But, I am very quiet. With the context given, why do you think boys do not pursue me? Do they think I am boring? Are they intimidated? Do they prefer outgoing girls? Tell me WHY?? I was courted once but turned him down because he is not my type. After that, no one courted me again. I know I am not that ugly but why no one try to court me? Even teenagers nowadays are able to get a jowa! 🥹