AITAH dating married woman
So me 33m her 30f. I don’t have any kids and never been married but her married with 4 kids two biologically hers 3 of them under 5 and one is a teen. We started out fwb because we were coworkers and she’s married. I cut her off because it’s been at least 8 months and she hasn’t filed for a divorce yet. Her husband is trans and not working I believe.
I asked her about him living there and she said she’s not gonna kick him out if her kids need a place to stay but one moment he didn’t want anything to do with the kids next thing I know he didn’t want me to meet the kids but after they talked he was ok with it. I’ve asked her why has it taken so long to file and she’s said she’s been busy with work kids, parents etc but she makes plenty of time for me. She claim she was pregnant at one point but turned out she wasn’t. Her brother called me from her phone to talk about it yet I’ve never met or spoken to him before but he wanted to know what my plans were for the baby.
Still no pregnancy claims as of later either and it’s been over two weeks. We no longer work together so work isn’t a problem because she’s not my boss anymore. I feel like I’m staying with her because she’s been supporting me and loving on me and I enjoy her company till her touch overstimulates me or she wakes me up in my sleep because of how she sleeps
I keep expressing that I’m concerned about her wellbeing with her husband going through her phone because I thought it was clear they’re getting a divorce but he’s dating someone else and wants to have a conversation with me. Her dad wants to talk to me and meet me and I don’t want to meet him because I don’t know where our relationship is headed with her still being married. I feel like she’s not being truthful about allot of stuff. I do love and care for her but in my soul this isn’t how I’ve envisioned my love life and I’ve expressed that to her and all my multiple concerns and she says she hears me and that I’m overthinking things but I’m not happy