u/Btedes

32M - I speak the language of some of your furniture.

Hello! I'm looking for friends to chat with, mostly during evenings (CET) when I'm not busy.

I'm from the land of IKEA, so I sit down in front of the assembly manual and speak my native language and it assembles itself for me, obviously, while you probably struggled putting it together and yelling at the manual. (Don't treat me like IKEA support, that's not why I posted this)

I pick locks as a hobby (legally, of course) and I have a 3D printer I intend on using more sometime soon. My taste in music is like the weather here in IKEAland, unpredictable and changes by the day. My fallback is metal, but I listen to so many different genres that Spotify has no clue what to recommend anymore. I'm self-employed, working in IT. If you can make me motivated about leg day (impossible) then I will actually consider developing your app.

So if you feel like I might be your cup of whatever preferred beverage then feel free to send me a message and we'll see if we hate each other or not. :)

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u/Btedes — 2 days ago

32M - I speak the language of some of your furniture.

Hello! I'm looking for friends to chat with, mostly during evenings (CET) when I'm not busy.

I'm from the land of IKEA, so I sit down in front of the assembly manual and speak my native language and it assembles itself for me, obviously, while you probably struggled putting it together and yelling at the manual. (Don't treat me like IKEA support, that's not why I posted this)

I pick locks as a hobby (legally, of course) and I have a 3D printer I intend on using more sometime soon. My taste in music is like the weather here in IKEAland, unpredictable and changes by the day. My fallback is metal, but I listen to so many different genres that Spotify has no clue what to recommend anymore. I'm self-employed, working in IT. If you can make me motivated about leg day (impossible) then I will actually consider developing your app.

So if you feel like I might be your cup of whatever preferred beverage then feel free to send me a message and we'll see if we hate each other or not. :)

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u/Btedes — 3 days ago
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32 [M4R] Online/Europe - I speak the language of some of your furniture.

Hello! I'm looking for friends to chat with, mostly during evenings (CET) when I'm not busy.

I'm from the land of IKEA, so I sit down in front of the assembly manual and speak my native language and it assembles itself for me, obviously, while you probably struggled putting it together and yelling at the manual. (Don't treat me like IKEA support, that's not why I posted this)

I pick locks as a hobby (legally, of course) and I have a 3D printer I intend on using more sometime soon. My taste in music is like the weather here in IKEAland, unpredictable and changes by the day. My fallback is metal, but I listen to so many different genres that Spotify has no clue what to recommend anymore. I'm self-employed, working in IT. If you can make me motivated about leg day (impossible) then I will actually consider developing your app.

So if you feel like I might be your cup of whatever preferred beverage then feel free to send me a message and we'll see if we hate each other or not. :)

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u/Btedes — 4 days ago
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32 [M4R] Online/Europe - I speak the language of some of your furniture.

Hello! I'm looking for friends to chat with, mostly during evenings (CET) when I'm not busy.

I'm from the land of IKEA, so I sit down in front of the assembly manual and speak my native language and it assembles itself for me, obviously, while you probably struggled putting it together and yelling at the manual. (Don't treat me like IKEA support, that's not why I posted this)

I pick locks as a hobby (legally, of course) and I have a 3D printer I intend on using more sometime soon. My taste in music is like the weather here in IKEAland, unpredictable and changes by the day. My fallback is metal, but I listen to so many different genres that Spotify has no clue what to recommend anymore. I'm self-employed, working in IT. If you can make me motivated about leg day (impossible) then I will actually consider developing your app.

So if you feel like I might be your cup of whatever preferred beverage then feel free to send me a message and we'll see if we hate each other or not. :)

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u/Btedes — 11 days ago
▲ 1 r/r4r

32 [M4R] Online/Europe - I speak the language of some of your furniture.

Hello! I'm looking for friends to chat with, mostly during evenings (CET) when I'm not busy.

I'm from the land of IKEA, so I sit down in front of the assembly manual and speak my native language and it assembles itself for me, obviously, while you probably struggled putting it together and yelling at the manual. (Don't treat me like IKEA support, that's not why I posted this)

I pick locks as a hobby (legally, of course) and I have a 3D printer I intend on using more sometime soon. My taste in music is like the weather here in IKEAland, unpredictable and changes by the day. My fallback is metal, but I listen to so many different genres that Spotify has no clue what to recommend anymore. I'm self-employed, working in IT. If you can make me motivated about leg day (impossible) then I will actually consider developing your app.

So if you feel like I might be your cup of whatever preferred beverage then feel free to send me a message and we'll see if we hate each other or not. :)

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u/Btedes — 12 days ago
▲ 1 r/r4r

32 [M4R] Online/Europe - I speak the language of some of your furniture.

Hello! I'm looking for friends to chat with, mostly during evenings (CET) when I'm not busy.

I'm from the land of IKEA, so I sit down in front of the assembly manual and speak my native language and it assembles itself for me, obviously, while you probably struggled putting it together and yelling at the manual. (Don't treat me like IKEA support, that's not why I posted this)

I pick locks as a hobby (legally, of course) and I have a 3D printer I intend on using more sometime soon. My taste in music is like the weather here in IKEAland, unpredictable and changes by the day. My fallback is metal, but I listen to so many different genres that Spotify has no clue what to recommend anymore. I'm self-employed, working in IT. If you can make me motivated about leg day (impossible) then I will actually consider developing your app.

So if you feel like I might be your cup of whatever preferred beverage then feel free to send me a message and we'll see if we hate each other or not. :)

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u/Btedes — 13 days ago

Hello! I'm looking for friends to chat with, mostly during evenings (CET) when I'm not busy.

I'm from the land of IKEA, so I sit down in front of the assembly manual and speak my native language and it assembles itself for me, obviously, while you probably struggled putting it together and yelling at the manual. (Don't treat me like IKEA support, that's not why I posted this)

I pick locks as a hobby (legally, of course) and I have a 3D printer I intend on using more sometime soon. My taste in music is like the weather here in IKEAland, unpredictable and changes by the day. My fallback is metal, but I listen to so many different genres that Spotify has no clue what to recommend anymore. I'm self-employed, working in IT. If you can make me motivated about leg day (impossible) then I will actually consider developing your app.

So if you feel like I might be your cup of whatever preferred beverage then feel free to send me a message and we'll see if we hate each other or not. :)

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u/Btedes — 15 days ago

Hello! I'm looking for friends to chat with, mostly during evenings (CET) when I'm not busy.

I'm from the land of IKEA, so I sit down in front of the assembly manual and speak my native language and it assembles itself for me, obviously, while you probably struggled putting it together and yelling at the manual. (Don't treat me like IKEA support, that's not why I posted this)

I pick locks as a hobby (legally, of course) and I have a 3D printer I intend on using more sometime soon. My taste in music is like the weather here in IKEAland, unpredictable and changes by the day. My fallback is metal, but I listen to so many different genres that Spotify has no clue what to recommend anymore. I'm self-employed, working in IT. If you can make me motivated about leg day (impossible) then I will actually consider developing your app.

So if you feel like I might be your cup of whatever preferred beverage then feel free to send me a message and we'll see if we hate each other or not. :)

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u/Btedes — 18 days ago
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Hello! I'm looking for friends to chat with, mostly during evenings (CET) when I'm not busy.

I'm from the land of IKEA, so I sit down in front of the assembly manual and speak my native language and it assembles itself for me, obviously, while you probably struggled putting it together and yelling at the manual. (Don't treat me like IKEA support, that's not why I posted this)

I pick locks as a hobby (legally, of course) and I have a 3D printer I intend on using more sometime soon. My taste in music is like the weather here in IKEAland, unpredictable and changes by the day. My fallback is metal, but I listen to so many different genres that Spotify has no clue what to recommend anymore. I'm self-employed, working in IT. If you can make me motivated about leg day (impossible) then I will actually consider developing your app.

So if you feel like I might be your cup of whatever preferred beverage then feel free to send me a message and we'll see if we hate each other or not. :)

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u/Btedes — 18 days ago

Hello! I'm looking for friends to chat with, mostly during evenings (CET) when I'm not busy.

I'm from the land of IKEA, so I sit down in front of the assembly manual and speak my native language and it assembles itself for me, obviously, while you probably struggled putting it together and yelling at the manual.

I pick locks as a hobby (legally, of course) and I have a 3D printer I intend on using more sometime soon. My taste in music is like the weather here in IKEAland, unpredictable and changes by the day. My fallback is metal, but I listen to so many different genres that Spotify has no clue what to recommend anymore. I'm self-employed, working in IT. If you can make me motivated about leg day (impossible) then I will actually consider developing your app.

So if you feel like I might be your cup of whatever preferred beverage then feel free to send me a message and we'll see if we hate each other or not. :)

Minor edit: I'm not IKEA support 😅

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u/Btedes — 19 days ago
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Hello! I'm looking for friends to chat with, mostly during evenings (CET) when I'm not busy.

I'm from the land of IKEA, so I sit down in front of the assembly manual and speak my native language and it assembles itself for me, obviously, while you probably struggled putting it together and yelling at the manual.

I pick locks as a hobby (legally, of course) and I have a 3D printer I intend on using more sometime soon. My taste in music is like the weather here in IKEAland, unpredictable and changes by the day. My fallback is metal, but I listen to so many different genres that Spotify has no clue what to recommend anymore. I'm self-employed, working in IT. If you can make me motivated about leg day (impossible) then I will actually consider developing your app.

So if you feel like I might be your cup of whatever preferred beverage then feel free to send me a message and we'll see if we hate each other or not. :)

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u/Btedes — 19 days ago

Hello! I'm looking for friends to chat with, mostly during evenings (CET) when I'm not busy.

I'm from the land of IKEA, so I sit down in front of the assembly manual and speak my native language and it assembles itself for me, obviously, while you probably struggled putting it together and yelling at the manual.

I pick locks as a hobby (legally, of course) and I have a 3D printer I intend on using more sometime soon. My taste in music is like the weather here in IKEAland, unpredictable and changes by the day. My fallback is metal, but I listen to so many different genres that Spotify has no clue what to recommend anymore. I'm self-employed, working in IT. If you can make me motivated about leg day (impossible) then I will actually consider developing your app.

So if you feel like I might be your cup of whatever preferred beverage then feel free to send me a message and we'll see if we hate each other or not. :)

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u/Btedes — 20 days ago
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Hello! I'm looking for friends to chat with, mostly during evenings (CET) when I'm not busy.

I'm from the land of IKEA, so I sit down in front of the assembly manual and speak my native language and it assembles itself for me, obviously, while you probably struggled putting it together and yelling at the manual.

I pick locks as a hobby (legally, of course) and I have a 3D printer I intend on using more sometime soon. My taste in music is like the weather here in IKEAland, unpredictable and changes by the day. My fallback is metal, but I listen to so many different genres that Spotify has no clue what to recommend anymore. I'm self-employed, working in IT. If you can make me motivated about leg day (impossible) then I will actually consider developing your app.

So if you feel like I might be your cup of whatever preferred beverage then feel free to send me a message and we'll see if we hate each other or not. :)

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u/Btedes — 20 days ago

I've always been introverted but loneliness hits different nowadays. I'm in a relationship but I have no friends really.

Thing is, the past week's been quite heavy and I have no one to talk to about it and it's just weighing me down. My SO have her own things going on so I don't really get the space needed to figure out how and what I feel, and when I do have some breathing room I realize I'm not doing as well as I thought I was, I just never have time to focus on myself. And I don't really have anyone else in my life who actually cares.

I just want to get to know someone who genuinely gives a damn, someone I could vent to about things and talk to about random stuff as well. Obviously I'm not looking for a therapist here, just someone who actually cares.

I game, I do lockpicking, I have a 3D printer and I have a lot of random dumb facts stored in my brain somewhere and if a conversation tickles the right way some may pop up. I'm in northern Europe, usually available in the late evenings since I'm a bit of a night owl.

Not really expecting much from this post but I've always been hopelessly hopeful. :)

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u/Btedes — 21 days ago
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I'll be brief and direct, since I find it's much more rewarding to actually talk and get to know someone rather than reading their CV and life story.

I'm an introverted guy living in northern Europe who spent his life moving a lot and never learning how to build and maintain friendships, thus I don't really have any. I occupy myself with work, games or TV, or one of my various hobbies, all of which lack any social aspect to them, such as 3D printing (which I'm still new to), lockpicking or learning things I will have absolutely no use for (like the 2 hours I spent on instruction videos on how to start flying FPV drones. I don't need an other expensive hobby, why do I like these things).

If you write 'u' instead of 'you' and similar, I probably won't be interested in talking to you, it just feels lazy.

I'm in a relationship, so I'm not looking for that. I'm just looking for friendship.

So if you're a nice person, somewhat patient, literate, more intelligent than a seagull and usually available for dumb conversations in CET evenings, hit me up.

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u/Btedes — 22 days ago
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Dealing with loss of employment, forcing myself way outside of my comfort zone, family member suddenly wants to talk after being away for more than half of my life. You know, the classic "welcome to your 30s" type stuff. But I'm okay, I promise.

I'm in a relationship, but I've never really had any close friends. Moving around a lot and never learning how to befriend people long term i something I have now discovered isn't that good, and it's not just me being introverted. Which I am, don't get me wrong. I just suck at socializing too.

Today's been heavier than usual, mentally, and I realized I wish I had someone to vent to who isn't my significant other. I'm obviously not looking for a therapist, just someone to chat with about everything and anything.

I'm from northern Europe, if that matters. Just looking for potential friends.

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u/Btedes — 23 days ago