I’ll be posting this in threads since I believe it will be long story. So I’m a girl and I’ve had 3 relationships, never had a fling I was looking for my forever man, my first relationship lasted for 7 years (college sweetheart) but it ended due to 3 years of long distance and constant fights, second relationship happened at the gym, he was a PT there and I was quite naive and had no clue about this “gym is for fun meetings” thing, neither did he treat me like “fun” he was serious about me but I just felt his behaviour not good at times so it ended, lasted for almost 2 years, the third person I met was a doctor(in his final year) though we met at the different gym (since that was my only social space) and then too I had no clue about this gym fun thing (I’ll tell this later), he was a great guy, good personality and a kind heart, but he wasn’t ready for the commitment and I wanted to stand somewhere in his life because I wanted marriage, I fell for him but I saw his confusion and decided it’s better to leave him be and I’ll carry on with my life.
u/Bubbly_Evening3016
So, I met my ex at the park where I used to go for a walk. Things went ahead a little too fast (he rushed it in FAST) and as per him it was a love at first sight. His background story is, he had been in a flings, one night stands, been in relationship with married women, got involved with married women, cheated on his exes, in-fact had sexual relation with gay men who were feminine to look at also, divorced have a bastard that some other man is raising thinking he's his. 3 days after showering so much love on my birthday and making me think "he is the one" and making me build an entire life with him in my head he started the abuse, he manipulated me and mentally broke me by slut-shaming me about my past relationship (2), he abused me, raised his hand on me, and then when he was in a good mood showered me with love, and Idk why I became a fool and still stayed for a year until it snapped and I was done, my mistake? I really fell in love, I was honest with him, I opened up about my since brith medical issue to him and my family dynamics, he used it all against me. A woman from a matrimonial site approached him and he entertained her, while being with me, talked to his exes, sent pictures of his trip to one of them. Motherfucker deserves helll