u/Bubbly_Homework2481

Just to lead off I don’t have a single care to give about anyone saying anything about how 5 months is to early for a marriage conversation so do not waste your energy to say anything about it.
Marriage has been in talks for the last 2 months with little jokes like “do you have my ring yet” “better get on it” and I have intention within this, but it may not be as quick as she may want it, I have no desire to wait an absurd amount of time (over 2 years) the only thing I can’t seem to tell her is that she just simply doesn’t act as if she’s ready to be a wife ( we are religious fyi) and a big rule I have heard and it makes sense to me is that you don’t marry “potential” and I do want to marry her and I feel as if she can get better but sometimes it’s a hard thought. Cause I am always trying my best to communicate healthy, and she is still learning how to and I don’t know how to put it nicer or how to get us to work on it and so she can see it my way. Because “I’m not marrying you yet because you aren’t ready to be wife” sounds harsh so any input in the matter
So TLDR How can I help to become a better communicator and communicate this with her I want to be the best I can be for her and continue to grow, how can I see if that’s her intention as well?
please and thanks

What to look for in a bucking saddle
I ride in a 15in roping saddle normally
What is different about a bucking saddle when compared to a roping saddle?
Thanks

I don’t even know where to begin to think with these cause there so random it’s laughable, last nights dream consisted of me and the guys and my trade school were going to play in the men’s volleyball national championships, Iv never played volleyball in my life, neither have these guys. Before we were heading there I was bouncing my tools and tool box off the ground like they were bouncy balls. I’m not even kidding my dreams follow this weird random trend where nothing correlates or makes any sense and barely has to do with anything in my life. Thoughts?