u/BuffaloCommercial794

I posted here a few days ago and got some responses but none of them were things I havent done

My cat will tear anything untill she destroys it around me and will scream all night long. However it is only around me. She wont do any of this around any other person anf it is destroying my sleep. I cannot get anything done because I am so sleep deprived. Ive started hearing and hallucinating because of the lack of sleep(its almost been a week of her screaming all night) and ive tried so many things to help the situation.

She has been to the vet, she has friends, I feed her 4 small meals a day, I play with her for 2 hours throughout the day and 20 before bed, she has puzzle feeders, she sleeps in my room on top of me, she has plenty of toys and ect so there is no way she is bored. Yes ive taken her to the vet and tried sprays, tape, foil, noises, puffs of air, ect. Nothing is helping or making any change.

I am starting to get angry at her and I do not want to. I need genuine advice anf not to be told to do something I have already tried a million times. Atp she will have be outside at night in the garage( being outside of the room only escalates things) or go to a new home. I do not ignore my cat we spend all day today and I do not reward or acknowledge the bad behavior. I have also asked people with more experience with cats(she is my first) she will not do any of this around them so they cant help and then just leave a few hours later. What the hell do I do.

Sorry for the repost there wasnt a title.

For context I(18f) do not live with her(36f) and havent sence nov. She is very abusive and neglectful and I got it the worst because of very many reasons like the fact we look like twins. My entire life I had to walk on egg shells and bend to her needs. I raised myself and my siblings with no help from anyone. From when I was 10ys old i had a job and was bringing in more money then she ever has.

For the sake of anonymity we will call her Sarah. The reason I haven't lived with Sarah is because she attacked me after work. I couldnt see and had to be taken to the hospital. I had no choice when it came to charges because I was still a minor. When I got home from the hospital she kicked me out over an airpod she had lost.

Recently I overheard someone who is close with Sarah talking about my 'toys' and how she was telling everyone I stole them. These 'toys' I kept in a banks version of a lock box. Sarah literally broke the lock box to take them for herself. Yes I have at least tested them all, I spent money on them why would I not?? However I know shes using them for her own personal use and I think its really really gross and someone should tell her.

That person will not be me tho idc. This woman has torched me in so many horrendous ways. Including when it came to my privet parts. I do not feel sorry for her in any way. But AITA for not saying something to her. If I did I doubt she would believe me even with the recites. (I say this because she never has believed me or anyone else she always has to be right)

*edit She was charged and found guilty there is a restraining order. I am nc and she was able to access this stuff because I was kicked out and prortiezed my pets safety. I dont think even if I didnt habe then the safe would have been something I grabbed because of the size, wether, and my physical restrictions. My mother was not the one who physically sexualy assulted me. She wss there for some of it and did nothing to stop it or support me. I apologize if I dont respond to you I promise I read them all it just gets very overwhelming.

First off I have talken her to the vet it is not pain or illnesses.

I am currently at home 24/7 right now and we spend all day together and I do play with her for most of the day, even when I am not she is constantly with me. She is always fed at the same time of day and night. However shes started purposely breaking things and tearing up anything she can with her claws. Shes also started nipping at me and attacking when she dosent get her way( example she is screaming an hour before dinner and I am not feeding her early she will bite and scrach. Yes she is fed enough I have also brought this up with the vet). Shes only around 8 months old and has lived eith me sence she was like 5 months old. This behavior started a week and a half ago and has only gotten worse.

I posted earlier and got no response However I desperately need help because I do not own the place I live and if this behavior continues we will have to leave or I will have to give her up. Which i cannot do because she will lose her mind without me. When we are in separate rooms she will scream at the top of her lungs intill I come back, sometimes she will scream at 4 in the morning untill i wake up so she cam beg for food. And when I mean scream I mean scream. You can hear her outside of the house when she dose this.

Any and all advice is very much appreciated because im losing my mind and I do not want her to have a poor life. But nothing is helping. Ive even bought her like 20 more toys