u/BulkyFoundation6298

Mg bf and I have a very healthy relationship and we communicate a lot. We never had actual sex but we still get intimate. He’s already had sex with someone else and I know who the girl is. She hates me for some reason and is always rude to me. My bf tells me to not give a crap about what she thinks. But I get so sad after my bf and I do things together because he’s already done everything with her. Everything he does with me I wonder if he’s done it with her. I’m so sad and I’m comparing her and me physically. I wonder if I’m not enough for him physically too, I have a smaller chest and her chest is bigger. I also think he thinks she’s prettier than me, and it just makes me sad that he’s already done the dees with her. I think it bothers me so much because I know who it is. Bf and I both agree that she’s a crappy person, but it makes me so insecure. What do I do?

I’m 18 and I’m in high school. I’ve been told that I’m pretty or cute. But what bothers me is that I have a small chest. My friends tell me I’m beautiful and that I shouldn’t care about my chest size. I started getting over it when I was a sophomore, but it’s coming back. My boyfriend always tells me I’m beautiful, but I don’t believe him. It’s really hard to take compliments, I feel like people are lying. My bf also had an ex in the past and she absolutely hates me. I don’t like her either because of how she acts towards me and my friends. So originally I didn’t feel any type of way about her, I just knew she wasn’t a good person. But now when I see her, I get jealous because I’m comparing myself to her physically. She has a bigger chest than me and it bothers me because maybe my boyfriend prefers that. It’s like a constant reminder that I’m flat asf, I’m not flat enough to not wear a bra but I don’t have big enough breasts to wear something sexy or have cleavage. I haven’t thought this way in a long time and it’s so weird. How do I feel better about myself and how do I start feeling more confident about my chest size?