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Male ISTJ’s how many times have you truly been in love?

I’m an (17F) infp and I just had my first boyfriend who is an istj. I’ve read that some of you guys have not truly been in love, and now I’m wondering if my ex ever had😭✌️so like what did you guys do when y’all were truly in love with someone? How do y’all act?

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u/Bunniemedia — 1 day ago

First break up ever.

Hello guys, I’m 17 years old, almost 18 and I broke up with my ex a month ago. It’s pathetic to me because we started talking in January, started dating in April and broke up mid/late May. So…the relationship was under two months. It was me and his first relationship. Everything was so new! We broke up because I wasn’t as religious as him and he kept pushing me after I told him stop. He said that he didn’t wanna WASTE 4 years of his life and I haven’t changed. I know how bad he was for me. He put so much stress and anxiety in my life, so much to a point that my medication was increased! WHY DO I STILL MISS HIM? This relationship was so short but I got so close to him. I hate that I’m blocked but I’m trying my hardest to not text him and get over him. Is this usually how first breakups are? This is the first time I’ve felt this way about any guy. All these new feelings and emotions, how did you guys handle it or how do you guys handle being blocked…? I know this is bad for my healing but is there like no possibility of him coming back? It feels like I mean nothing to him. I HATE THIS!

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u/Bunniemedia — 6 days ago