u/BusAdministrative759

Hello, so me and my Girlfriend have been stuggling with her Mom for about 2 weeks now. Let me tell you the full backstory. So end April she had problems with her WIFI and we had to call on normal Phone calls, which made the Phone bill higher. And when her Mom got the Phone bill and saw how much it was she flipped out and smacked my Girlfriend and said to block me everywhere. And I know I know it was immature of us to not see or not have realised that the phone bill was getting much higher. But I even said that I could help pay the phone bill but her mom just said I dont need someone to help me pay the phone bill.

So we ended up not talking for 2-3 days, but then I texted her again we talked for 5-6 days hiding from her mom. And then a day ago her mom found out and smacked her in the face again and told her to block me again.

And I know that we were immature and irresponsible for not seeing that it would make the phone bill higher, but man you can't tell me that, that was the right move from her mom. Like she could've just said to watch out the next time or say to help her pay the phone bill.

I dont know what to do if I should call her mom or if I should go to her city and try to talk to her

Im 21m and she is 19f and we have been together for a month and a half and her mom made us lose contact over a phone bill.

Well let me explain you better. So last month april, she had no internet for a week and we had to call on normal phone calls, because as i said she didn’t have internet at home nor 5G. So we called in total for 7 hours and her mom got a phone bill of my gf that was more than 120€, it said we called for 745 minutes.

And her mom got so mad that she said “you need to block him or else you are going to be in big trouble with me”. So she told me the bad news and blocked my contact and on TikTok. But i made a secret account to text her and tell her to talk to her mom calmly but her mom doesn’t want to change her mind. And i just think because her mom divorced lately that she is very mad and idk why she does that to her child. I am so mad that she would do such a thing.

And i want y’all guys help, like i don’t know what to do because i don’t want to lose my girl over a st*pid paper. And we both love each other a lot and yeah i dont want to lose my babygirl 😔. I even said to her to tell her mom that i would help pay the bill but she said “i dont need someone to pay my bills. Idk guys i need help😔

(sorry for my bad phrased text)

Hello everyone,

so me and my girlfriend of long distance had to break up last night. It wasn’t her choice nor mine it was the choice of her mom. We had to break up because her mom got a phone bill from my girlfriends phone and the amount on the phone bill was a lot more than usual because we had called a lot over normal phone calls because my girlfriend didn’t have internet at the end of the month. So her mom told her we needed to break up and do no contact. Her mom was really mad, my gf tried to convince her that it wont happen again but she said she didn’t care and didn’t want to hear nothing more about it. My gf even confessed her love of me to her mom but she didn’t care. She has a very abusive and strict mom. And the last thing her mom told her was break up now or my gf would be in very big trouble with her.

And then she did what she had to do and block me on everything. And my gf even said she will try for us and do the best she can.

But man this is just so unfair why did her mom have to let her anger out on her, just over a freaking phone bill??? huh???

So yeah i still have her on one app, but i haven’t tried to text her because i am scared that her mom’ll find out and do something bad to her. And i just want to text her to tell her that if she is overthinking of me letting go or giving up or moving on, that i am still waiting until she texts me that its safe to talk again.
Can someone please help me ?😪