Out of all the marriage candidates, I find myself the most drawn to March, Balor, and Seridia…
Is there anything these three may have in common in personality?
Also I’m still very indecisive on who to marry once the 1.0 version comes out 😅
I'm 23, and for a while, I thought that I liked guys, but as I started getting older, I realized that most of those feelings were toward people that I barely knew and wished to get closer to.
I've had situations where I have either liked someone for a short period of time, not longer than three months, or I have liked someone for many years, despite not interacting with them or seeing them.
After the second scenario, I started suspecting this wasn't particularly common or something I heard people around me experienced.
After a lot of searching, I came across the term "limerence." In that moment, I realized I didn't know much about the person I thought I had a crush on at the time, but rather, I liked the idea of what I thought being with them would be/feel like.
Sometimes I wonder if it's just me not trying to date irl, but whenever someone gets introduced to me, I already feel uncomfortable with the idea of having to meet someone.
And the very few times I did try dating someone online, I felt uncomfortable with the idea of being someone's partner, if that makes sense.
I would think of myself all the time in this sort of box of being someone's partner, and then I would like to think of things that I thought partners do, like calling someone "babe," or having to call them all the time, or saying "I love you."
I don't think it's that I was nervous but excited; I felt like I wanted to run away and call it quits. Because of that, I always end up ending the relationship very early on because I don't want to waste the other person's time or hurt their feelings.
So lately, I'm wondering if maybe I'm Aromantic