I'm 18 ftm, never been to a barber and keep getting really shit haircuts at the hairdressers. I'm terrified to go to a barber because I dont pass very well, does anyone know any trans friendly barbers in Connaght for a decent price?
I (18m) and my sister (16f) were talking yesterday. We both currently live at home.
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We started talking about weddings and she said she didn't want me to be in her wedding party when we're older. I can only attend. This is fine, she said it's because I would stress her out. Fair enough. Then I asked if she would be mad if I was in her husband's party and she said she wouldn't want us to be friends.
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Then this conversation transcended into where we'd live when we grow up. She said she didn't want to stay in the country we live in now. I asked if she'd be mad if I moved to be closer to her. She said she didn't want me cramping her style.
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I asked her how often I could visit. I said "can I come once a week." She literally laughed in my face. Then I said can I see you once a month. She shrugged her shoulders and said maybe once every two months.
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I was like, that's only six times a year. And she said, ya.
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I dont know how but I started crying uncontrollably. She's my best friend and I dont think i'm hers.
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I'm scared of growing up and growing apart, i'm already more distant with my sisters who moved already compared to when they lived at home.
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I think i'm scared to grow up, my sister said it was immature to imagine us all together when we're older.
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I dont want things to change, how do I get over this?