r/TransIreland

For context, I'm in my 50's, married for 20+ years with 2 college aged daughters.

For the longest time, I thought I was "just" a crossdresser.

After years of seeing a therapist I have come to accept that I'm trans, despite the imposter voice niggling away asking "am I trans enough?"

So last week I came out to my best friend. She was immediately supportive, accepting and a true friend.

Then last night, with a bit of support, and putting on my "big girl knickers" I came out to my wife. That was probably the hardest thing I've ever done to date. I was a trembly teary mess as I came out. And I'm very much the computer programmer with a dose of undiagnosed (according to my kids) tism on the side cliche!

I opened up about my stress, trying to hide part of me, it affecting my work, my mental health to the point of contemplating some stupid actions.

She was amazing. Instantly supportive despite us going through lots of other family issues as well. I know she is in a bit of shock taking it all in and will in time have loads of questions about us , our future, my plans, impact on the kids etc.

But so far the scariest week of my life is done, I'm out the other side, and things have gone better than I could have dared hope for.

I'm a nurse based in Dublin and have seen a few posts of people being denied having their injections done in GP practices which SUCKS.

I would be willing to administer hormone injections for people (on the basis you have a prescription) free of charge, trans healthcare is painful enough as it is.

I have a lot experience administering Sustanon (have done my friend's every 3 weeks for the past 4 years) and some experience administering Nebido.

I'm willing to provide proof of nursing registration if requested.

I will need you to provide:
- The medication (obviously)
- Needles x2*
- Syringe**

I can provide:
- Hand sanitiser
- Gloves
- Alcohol swabs/wipes
- Sharps bin
- Plasters

*For Sustanon can be 1x 23G (blue) needle and 1x 21G (green) needle. For Nebido needs to be 2x 21G (green) needles because it's more difficult to draw up with smaller needles.
**For Sustanon: 1-2ml syringe, for Nebido: 5ml syringe.

Injections would be gluteal (in the buttock), not in the thigh.

I am willing to travel to you if I can get there by public transport (mainly Dublin area), I would prefer if I could come to you rather than you coming to mine but it can be discussed.

I am out of the country for the next few weeks but just putting out some feelers to see if this is something people need/want.

Comment/message me if you have any questions!

Hi! I wanted to ask if anybody knows about any HRT treatment areas in Kerry? I'm 19, mtf, came out this year in January (though the signs were obvious way before that), and I asked my GP about HRT services, but all she could really do was try to refer me onto the National Gender Services, which, well, I heard would take at least a decade to hear back from.

My friend recommended GenderGP which is a HRT service in the UK, as that's where he's getting his prescriptions from, but even though I'm an adult, my parents don't like the idea of getting a prescription for hormones from an unknown doctor overseas. So options overseas are also a no-go.

If there is anywhere I could go to, then I would be really happy to hear about it!

Hi all, I am just looking for some hopeful stories for my sister. She is on the wait list for hormones etc. and as you all know it is looking more likely we will need to go private. She’s in a very dark place and it is to the point where she won’t even speak because she hates her voice. I am trying to give her hope that it does get better but she has to help herself while we get her the medical care she needs (she has a psychiatrist and currently finding a new therapist) I am looking for any MTF here who can share any kind of light on life getting better after beginning transitioning (even tho I know it doesn’t get any easier). Thank you in advanced you amazing people 💜

i might be booking an assessment with them but am slightly apprehensive about the whole dysphoria diagnosis. Just wondering how other people found it/ anything I should be aware of going in (i'm a more nonbinary-ish trans guy so wondering if this might affect my success in diagnosis lol)

Please read the above and comment on who you think gets the most pleasure out of there performances.

Hi I'm a 28 year old asexual where in cork city can I hangout to feel safe and talk to people in the LGBT community because I would love to make some friends.

Hey all!

I haven't been to the beach post top surgery (that was 3 years ago) and I would love to be able to finally swim freely. I'm kinda worried if something bad might happen if someone sees my scars. I'm planning to go to Galway sometime next week, since the weather's supposed to be nice. Wouldn't mind having someone to go with too :]

I'm 18 ftm, never been to a barber and keep getting really shit haircuts at the hairdressers. I'm terrified to go to a barber because I dont pass very well, does anyone know any trans friendly barbers in Connaght for a decent price?

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I'm part of the LGBTQ+ community and I go by a different name to that on my birth certificate. Do employers ask you for your passport when they hire you, and what name should I put on my CVs/applications etc.?

For context I "pass" incredibly well as the gender I identify as, to the point where I've been turned away from my birth gender bathrooms.

So my dad talked to a doctor (im 17 mtf) and apparently the HSE recommend only people above 18 get hrt, meaning even if i go private which was what i was planning to do i have to be 18 no matter what, is that true or no because ive seen places like gender plus only need you to be 16? Idk if I'm even really making sense my head is a complete mess right now

I'm English but have dual nationality as my dad is Irish and already have an Irish passport in my dead name. I was looking to update my Irish passport with my new name and gender through the statement of declaration and proof method, but when I was looking through the online application I couldn't see how to actually change my gender marker for my new passport and just wanted some help. Thanks!

how to feel less doomy about being trans especially with recent things about trans rights because the thought of transitioning rn feels very impossible both with being able to transition and dealing with my family and friends about it because as far as i know im the only trans person in my entire family so it feels very alienating even without them knowing. most of my worry about transitioning is that ive gotten so used to looking like a girl that i dont want to change it out of fear id be harrassed for being clocky

I am 40 years old and I live in Algeria. For many years, I have felt that my gender identity does not match the body I was born with. These feelings have never gone away—they have stayed with me throughout my life.

Even though I am 40, my body looks much younger than my age, which gives me hope that I still have a chance to achieve my transition if I can find the right medical care.

One of the hardest parts for me is seeing women with naturally feminine, curvy bodies. When I see them, I often feel jealous because I wish I could have a body like theirs. Instead of feeling happy, I end up feeling discouraged about my own body and how far I still am from the person I want to be.

I have searched for doctors or specialists who could help me with my gender transition, but unfortunately I have not been able to find anyone in Algeria who provides this kind of care.

In the past, I tried Solaray Female Hormone Blend and experienced some partial changes, but the results were limited. After that, I spent a long time looking for Estrogel because I prefer using a transdermal gel instead of pills, but unfortunately I could not find it in local pharmacies.

I feel frustrated because I am trying to find a safe path, but every door seems to be closed. I do not want to risk my health—I simply want access to proper medical care under professional supervision.

If anyone in Algeria has gone through a similar experience, knows a doctor, or knows where Estrogel is available, I would be truly grateful for any advice or guidance.

ive just turned 18 and im thinking of starting testosterone with imago ,and i was wondering if anyone has went with them.

if so could you share your experience and some sort of run down on the steps u need to take in order to do that?

id really appreciate it bc ive looked at their website but i think the most accurate review would come from the people that have actually got hrt from them.

thanks so much!

Does anyone else feel like its so tough making genuine friends in this community. I appreciate we are all on different journeys but its been tough to find a genuine circle of friends. I have a few friends who have been incredibly helpful and supportive but would love more...

Hii !! I am going to be visiting Dublin, Ireland for a conference later in the month. We will mainly be in the conference hall, but there are some touristy things we're gonna be doing. I wanted to ask if there was anything I needed to know before I visit. Thanks !!

im 16(ftm) and when i turned 16 back in november i talked to a doctor trying to get on hrt which i then never got a response back and i REALLY dont want to wait any longer. and im trying to find a way to start is there anyway i could get help on that here?