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I used to heavily smoke for 3 years, im 20 now and stopped chain smoking weed a month and a half ago. Since then, I smoked once at an event. Its been two weeks since then and I REFUSE to smoke in any other context. When Im stressed at home, lowkey every day, i just remind myself how awful it is to smoke as a coping strategy. I do have the cravings every day but I feel so much stronger now. It genuinely feels so different to smoke at an event like a concert, because my mindset is basically like ‘im not doing this to cope, im doing this to have EXTRA fun, and I CAN have fun without it’
I know this sub aims for complete abstinence but idk man, I think I’ve gained a lot of self control. Prozac has also helped greatly so I recommend looking into meds.
We’ve been together for 3 years. Sometimes my chronic stomach pains are really debilitating. She doesnt really get it and views me as weak and too sensitive. Its caused by anxiety, I am in treatment for that! But, the stomach issues seem to be something that isnt going away for now at least. Many days I feel nausea and intense stomach pain, I would say 4 out of 10 days.
I also dont share my anxieties with her because shes made that a boundary. I just wish I didnt feel so harshly judged and could seek comfort from her for the stomach pain at least.
I struggle with rumination the most and wondering if I can ever stop and if theres ways to make it stop, therapy isnt really helping me with that