AITA for telling my sister to sort herself out?
AITA for telling my sister to sort herself out? I (24f) asked my sister (20f) if she wanted to come over to hang out and help me with something yesterday. She said not then but today at 10ish would be good. Fast forward to today and I give her a call at 8ish to see if she can bring my package I had delivered to her house while I was out of town at the same time she comes over. She tells me she’s not coming over anymore because of gas prices.
Heres the thing - she does this all the time. Sets a day and time that works for her, then backs out last minute. Once in a while she’ll follow through and I really thought she would now cause I offered food. She said she only said yes because she was afraid ’something like this would happen’, and she’s afraid of saying no to anyone because they’d get upset.
AITA for telling her she needs to sort herself out and stop saying yes to things just because she‘s afraid of a reaction she fabricated? I said I understand gas prices which is why I knew I couldn’t go over to her place, and I would have understood if she said no. She told me I was unnecessarily upset over something small. I ended up telling her she needs to figure this out because its not fair to other people to have to change plans last minute because she guilt trips herself into saying yes to something she has no intentions of following through on, and that I have every right to be upset about how she handles it.
Im worried I may have been too harsh or that I’m in the wrong too since she hasn’t responded. AITA?