u/CalmBeginning3574

Does horizons also kill you guys? Like something about this album is so astronomically amazing it hurts me. This is by far my favorite album from them and it 100% will always be my favorite album. It like physically harms me to listen to this album I love it THAT much. I listen to the full album at least once a day and at this point I need to actually just consume it. I need to like feel Horizons in my bones.

Does anyone else have these normal feelings ab Horizons? If u feel this way about another album or even one of their songs please share because I'm interested

As the title says lol, I came out to a close family member of mine last night and she was extremely disappointed to hear that I'd be "getting rid of the parts god gave us." When I told her I wasn't looking to get a hysterectomy she asked me what the point of transitioning was if I'm not going the full mile (Top surgery, hysterectomy, phalloplasty) and I'm really hung up on that question? She asked me why I'm putting these hormones in my body when I could just dress up as a boy but still be a girl. Like actually how do I go about talking to her about this? Explaining gender feelings to cishet people is already quite the challenge but the stuff she said has got me like genuinely bugged LMAO. I guess my question is should I even bother explaining it to her or should I just live with the fact she's really never going to see me as a man because I'm not getting surgery?

P.S. I told her the reasons I'm not getting surgery (Intense fear of anesthesia & general surgery anxiety) and personally I don't get bottom dysphoria so I've never wanted any surgeries relating to that. And she said that it's just confusing that I'm transitioning but not becoming a full man.

NSFW mark just for the mention of genetals 😛

Hi guys! I was wondering if anyone has any good underwear recs? I'm a fat dude so finding stuff that fits is already a challenge but underwear is just ANNOYING. Because I dont have a dick the underwear with the pockets (or flaps?? Idk the thing on the front) obviously dont fit. I could techincally buy a set and sew them to fit my body better but thats so much work. Unfortunately looking up "womens" boxers comes up with those super short ass crack hugging ones and I dont want those. But also looking for trans boxers in specific comes up with stuff thats $30 per one pair of underwear and I'm not paying that much???

So either im stuck with the underwear ment for people with a penis or I'm stuck wearing womens underwear :/

I should also add that I have not tried a packer and I'm really not looking to try one. I feel like they would just be uncomfortable.